During this Chinese New Year, the outbreak of family conflicts plunged Wang Liang's family into a big drama. This scene ends with Wang Liang's apology, which superficially redeems some bad influences, however, the deep scars are quietly left in the hearts of his father and stepmother, indicating the future troubles of the family. The source of all this seems to be traced back to Wang Liang's unique sensitive mind and complex cognition of family relationships.
Wang Liang's sensitivity was not formed overnight, but gradually accumulated from the shadow of his parents' divorce. As a child, he may not have really understood how the breakdown of his family affected him. However, over time, his mind became unusually fragile. Paying too much attention to small things makes his mind like a fragile piece of glass, and any casual glance may hurt his heart.
The venting on the Internet became an outlet for Wang Liang to vent his emotions, and Zhao Benshan's persuasion only calmed down the turmoil. However, judging by the content of Wang Liang's apology, it seems that he prefers to portray himself as a victim of years of oppression. This distorted perception may be the result of his inability to let go of family conflicts for many years. Although he expressed his apologies to his father and stepmother in his apology, it is worth pondering whether this can really clear up the past contradictions.
The divorce of his parents has become a hurdle in Wang Liang's growth process. From "swallowing his anger" to the final outburst, his mental journey is full of twists and turns. The trauma of his parents' divorce made him overly sensitive to family relationships and unable to remain calm even in the face of small things. Such a psychological shadow not only allows him to seek an emotional outlet on the Internet, but also makes his emotions in family gatherings not be effectively released.
At that family gathering, my sister-in-law's live broadcast plan became the fuse. Wang Liang's dissatisfaction erupted in the live broadcast plan named "Wang Liang's sister-in-law", forming a violent dispute. He thinks that "the family is torn apart", but he does not realize that all this may stem from his excessive demands on family members and his own one-sided understanding of family relationships. Whether all this is due to his being too self-centered and unable to see things from other people's perspectives is worth pondering.
At the same time, stepmother Li Lin has become a high-profile character in this family turmoil. Li Lin is smart and capable, she can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen, and her relationship with Wang Xiaoli has always been relatively harmonious. However, in the family conflict, the stepmother could not escape the fate of being implicated. Wang Liang's dissatisfaction with his stepmother even excluded everyone around her, making her stepmother's life more and more difficult. This may be the dilemma of the special character of the stepmother, although she is smart and capable, she cannot escape the shadow of family conflicts.
Wang Liang's desire for fatherly love is also evident throughout the incident. Looking back at the experience he spent at his grandfather's house as a child, we can see how much he longed for his father. The father and father-in-law had a quarrel over one of his shoes, which made his heart yearn for his father's love even more. This moment may be interpreted as a call for his family relationship, and he needs more love and understanding.
However, the issue of the division of property became another source of dispute. Wang Liang once tried to put his hukou on his father's hukou book, but Li Lin refused. Wang Liang's friends speculated about this, thinking that this might be Wang Liang's concern about dividing the family property. However, whether all this is really what it seems on the surface is worth pondering. Whether the issue of dividing the family property is a misunderstanding of Wang Liang's family relationship, or the outward manifestation of his relatives' stabbing behavior, needs to be judged after an in-depth understanding of the emotional disputes behind the family.
The excessive requirements for family relationships seem to be a problem for Wang Liang all along. He constantly uses the families of successful people such as Zhao Benshan as a benchmark to compare his family problems with these successful cases. However, the complexity of family relationships goes far beyond this simple contrast.
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