In 2019, 44-year-old Ji Xueping failed to see her daughter for the last time, and her eldest daughter, who was only 11 years old, died suddenly due to a congenital disease. It took a long time for Ji Xueping to come out of this shadow, although she has left Dragon TV and is no longer a host, but she is the founder of an international private kindergarten, a doctor of psychology, and a mother of three sons.
From an ordinary girl to Bai Xue in "Sixteen-Year-Old Flower Season", to the host of the Zhengda variety show, and the leading Hua Dan of Dragon TV, Ji Xueping has always been perfect, and she also successfully married into a wealthy family and had a perfect marriage. But the difficulty behind fame, fortune and aura is not easy only for herself.
In 1975, Ji Xueping was born in an ordinary working family in Shanghai, she is an only daughter, her parents have high requirements for her, her academic performance must be among the best, in order to be versatile, she studied dance for ten years. Her mother often told her in Shanghainese, 'Don't make a noise outside', and let her be a well-informed and likable girl.
In Ji Xueping's original life plan, she had no plan to be a star or a host at all, but "Sixteen-year-old Flower Season" took the initiative to find her. This drama was very carefully prepared back then, because it was the first youth drama in China, so the young actors must be selected well, not only to be able to act, but also to have an audience.
Originally, the crew wanted Yuan Ming, who had been the host, to play the role of Bai Xue, she was generous and sunny, and she was well-known, but at that time, Yuan Ming was already a freshman, and he was very nervous about studying and couldn't spare time. In order to find the right Bai Xue, the crew traveled all over the middle schools in Shanghai and interviewed thousands of middle school students.
Ji Xueping has no acting experience, and during the interview, the director asked her to act out the plot when she saw her father cheating. Probably because God appreciates food, Ji Xueping has a pair of big eyes with a story, her eyes are clear and timid, and she can see that she is a little stronger, she is the Bai Xue that the director is looking for.
Ji Xueping's fate changed, and at the age of 14, she became the heroine of the TV series, and after the show was broadcast in 1990, it became popular all over the country. Bai Xue in the play is the 'originator of other people's children', she is positive and enthusiastic, and she is also a class cadre with a sense of justice, she is the appearance that many girls yearn for, and she is the white moonlight of many boys.
Bai Xue also became a starlet with this role, and when she walked to **, people recognized her, and with the hit of the TV series, she was invited to attend meetings all over the country, and advertising invitations came to her door. Ji Xueping's popularity also changed the life of the whole family, and her income from an advertisement was higher than a month's salary of her parents.
At that time, it was the era in the TV series "Flowers", the Yellow River Road was full of traffic and neon lights flashed, but Ji Xueping's memory of Shanghai was gray, because she was too busy, too stressed, her studies were delayed, and there were new work challenges every day.
In 1992, Ji Xueping became the host for the first time, a travel program cooperated by Dragon TV and Japanese TV, and she also had a partner Yan Ni. The two girls are four years apart, and their personalities are very compatible, although they don't have much hosting experience, but the two work well together.
After work, Ji Xueping often takes Yan Ni home to eat authentic Shanghai food. At that time, Yan Ni had already studied acting in military arts, and was escorted to university for further study after becoming a literary soldier. However, Ji Xueping's college entrance examination was delayed because she was too busy with work, perhaps due to Yan Ni's influence, she decided to suspend her work and take the university entrance examination.
In 1995, Ji Xueping participated in the art examination, and she was admitted to six schools, including Shangju, and all major colleges and universities came to compete for this star student. In the end, Ji Xueping chose to play close to home, originally she chose to major as a TV editor, but she was snatched away by the teacher of the broadcasting department and embarked on the road of professional hosting.
After the 95 broadcasting class of the opera, there were many famous mouths, especially contributed a lot of talents to Dragon TV, Zhou Jin and Chen Rong were all from this class. and Yu Entai, who played Lu Xiucai in "Wulin Gaiden", is also from this class, no wonder his line skills are so good.
During college, Ji Xueping still worked continuously, often receiving various business hosting activities, and she also had a fixed variety show "Five-Star Arena". She is a popular figure in school and a household name in Shanghai, so naturally there is no shortage of suitors, and international player Xie Hui is one of them.
Xie Hui once wrote in his autobiography that he was crazy about pursuing an actress surnamed J, stopped in front of her in a supercar, and invited her to dinner and watch movies, all of which she refused. Xie Hui was selected into Shanghai Shenhua at the age of 18, and won the national league championship with Shenhua at the age of 20, and he was the second scorer of the Shenhua team.
And Xie Hui and Ji Xueping are the same age, they are both young and famous, they are both very good-looking, and they look very matched. But at that time, Ji Xueping already had a boyfriend, that is, her future husband Hai Lide. Ji Xueping met Hai Lide when she was a sophomore, and it is said that she was introduced by a friend at the program group dinner of "Five Star Arena".
Ji Xueping and Hai Lide went on their first date at the well-known restaurant Xiao Nanguo in Shanghai, and they ate the famous dish King Snake on the Yellow River Road in "Flowers". He is Taiwanese, living in Canada since he was a child, and his father's name is Hei Youming, who is the founder of Gaoguan Investment Group.
The Hei family is quite legendary in Taiwan, it is said that black and white are all eaten, the early was to do arms trading, and later successfully went to the sea to wash white, Hai Lide is already the second generation of business. He joined the family group very early, is very business-minded, and handsome, and is a rare diamond king. No wonder Ji Xueping can't look down on the frivolous Xie Hui.
Originally, Hai Lide wanted to wait for Ji Xueping to graduate from college and get married, but Ji Xueping received an invitation from CCTV at that time and asked her to be the host of "Zhengda Variety Show", she didn't want to miss such a rare opportunity, so she rejected her boyfriend's marriage proposal, and the two almost broke up.
"Zhengda Variety Show" was once CCTV's trump card program, giving the audience in the nineties a pair of eyes to see the world. Since the start of this show, many excellent hosts have been cultivated, such as Zhao Zhongxiang, Yang Lan, Wang Xuechun, etc., they are all the ceilings of the hosting industry, and Ji Xueping is already the eighth generation of hosts this year.
When Ji Xueping received the interview invitation, she thought it was just a formality, and she felt that such an opportunity would definitely not fall on her head, so she went with curiosity, but she, a fledgling little girl, was selected. Ji Xueping couldn't believe it herself, she even ran to ask the judges why they chose her.
The judges said that with so many hosts, you are the only one who does not make cheat sheets, the most relaxed one. In this way, Ji Xueping came to Beijing from Shanghai, she changed from a well-known child star to a national host, her down-to-earth and generous demeanor, fresh and natural temperament made her highly praised, and she was even called 'Ni Ping' for a time.
But Ji Xueping did not shine on CCTV and became a pillar-like host, she was plagued by the difference between the north and the south, missed her hometown every day, and ran back to Shanghai whenever she had time. Every time, Hai Lide's car would wait for Ji Xueping at the airport on time, and then take her to eat something good.
In 2000, Ji Xueping did not renew her contract with CCTV and joined Dragon TV, which also ended her long-distance relationship. In Dragon TV, Ji Xueping is still in the position of the leading lady, she stands in the middle of the large-scale gala, and the ratings of "Family Studio" hosted by her are very high. At the same time, she often starred in some film and television dramas, and she was addicted to acting.
In 2004, 29-year-old Ji Xueping was finally willing to marry, and she and Hai Lide held a grand wedding in Shanghai. After marriage, Ji Xueping did not stay at home to be a kuotai, pampered and enjoyed life, she is still active in hosting programs on TV, and she and her husband also founded an international private kindergarten.
In 2008, Ji Xueping became pregnant, her personality became irritable, she often couldn't eat, and her husband Hei Lide became a fire extinguisher, trying to coax his wife every day. But Ji Xueping did not rest during her pregnancy, she hosted the show with her pregnant belly, and even signed up to go to the front line after Wenchuan**, and was persuaded by her colleagues to come back.
The eldest daughter was finally born, named Black Pearl, a little princess who was loved by thousands of people, but suffered from a congenital lack of swallowing. Black Pearl spit up milk when she was a child, and when she grew up, she often vomited when she ate, because of the lack of swallowing, the food she ate often entered her lungs, causing inflammation and infection in the lungs.
Since the birth of this daughter, Ji Xueping and her husband have taken her everywhere, from Shanghai to Hong Kong, to the United States, and have seen all over the famous doctors, but there is no way.
It was also in the process of raising her daughter that Ji Xueping felt the importance of educational psychology, and she studied psychology from scratch, from a master's degree to a doctorate. Later, Ji Xueping gave birth to two sons and three twin sons, and she gradually faded out of the hosting world, focusing on children's education and her own international kindergarten.
Fortunately, Hai Lide is a very caring husband, and in the process of taking care of the four children, even if Ji Xueping is a doctor of psychology, she will collapse because of tutoring the children's homework, and she will lose control of her emotions. She often calls her husband home one by one, replaces him with the children, and takes a short break on the sofa by herself.
During this period, Dragon TV asked Ji Xueping to return to the station to host the show many times and let her continue to be a sister, but she refused, because there were many hosts, but there was only one mother of the child.
However, Ji Xueping, who was determined to be a good mother, still did not keep her daughter. In 2019, she sent her eleven-year-old daughter to hang salt water, which is her daily routine since her daughter was born. Ji Xueping originally wanted to wait for her daughter to pick her up after hanging the water as usual, but she received ** from the hospital after a while.
Their Black Pearl was no longer breathing, and this hospital did not have rescue equipment, so it needed to be transferred immediately, and when Ji Xueping arrived, it was too late, and she missed the last time she saw her daughter. She endured her grief to deal with her daughter's funeral, watching her daughter's coffin being pushed into the cremation machine and sent out, in just half an hour, she seemed to have experienced several lifetimes.
Ji Xueping's death made Ji Xueping grief-stricken, she kept crying and crying, unable to come out of the shadow of her daughter's death. With the company of her son and the encouragement of relatives and friends, she gradually came out of the shadows, faced life again, and wrote her life experience into the book "The Cause of the World".
At Ji Xueping's new book launch, Fan Zhiyi, Kong Xiangdong and other friends came to help her, and her friends felt sorry for her.
In the book, Ji Xueping wrote about the process from her daughter's illness to death, and she wrote emotionally that 'the rest of the way, my mother will run for you'. However, she also attracted a lot of controversy because of this, some people questioned her use of her daughter's death to hype and attract attention, and even her son asked 'why do you want to tell others about her sister'.
Originally, Ji Xueping was reluctant to mention the most painful experience in her life, but the publisher suggested that she write it, since she wanted to share, she should be sincere, which is also an explanation to herself. So Ji Xueping still wrote it, no longer avoiding her daughter's death, and bluntly said that this incident made her see through life and death.
Ji Xueping said that she used to be a selfish person, caring about whether her position on the stage was in the middle, and the pre-performance fee had to be paid to the account before she was willing to go on stage, but the death of her daughter made her find a mission in life and wanted to promote children's education.
Of course, in addition to this unfortunate, Ji Xueping is a very successful cross-border businessman, and the international kindergarten she founded is very expensive, with a semester cost of up to 100,000 yuan, ranking among the top ten in Shanghai. Ji Xueping also has a number of investments, as early as 2009, she was in the news because of her shareholding in Haiyin shares, and her quarterly investment income of 2 million.
Not to mention that Ji Xueping's husband is at the helm of the International Investment Group, and the combined assets of the couple must be conservatively estimated to be hundreds of millions. But Ji Xueping has never been lying flat from beginning to end, no matter when she was young and famous, she was still selected by CCTV, or married into a wealthy family, even if her daughter died, she did not give herself a chance to breathe, and she has been struggling.
This is probably the spirit of a Shanghai woman, who will never admit defeat, never give up the opportunity, and stand in front of people brightly no matter how much she suffers. I envy Ji Xueping with such a strong core, she is really talented, beautiful, and has to be a little motivated to live beautifully.
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