Parents who all say that there are "talents" finally met today.
In the WeChat group of first-grade students of a primary school in Shanghai, a funny farce was staged: at 6:30 in the morning, a parent "informed" the teacher that because the children were still young and could not get up, all classes in the morning would be canceled in the future.
Say it as if it's your own home.
The parent gave two reasons: first, children sleep more than in the morning classes, so they have to wake up on time; The second is because parents are reluctant to get out of bed and cannot bring their children home.
As soon as I read the previous content, my heart moved, since sleep is very important, why not let the child go to bed early at night?
Then I looked at it again, well, it's the parents themselves who are lazy and put the blame on the child.
At 7:40, the parents saw that their son had not woken up yet, so they expressed their opinions in the WeChat group: "No matter what you write, you can put it in his drawer, whether you want it or not, that's our business." ”
Then ask the teacher if they want to go to PE class and let them play soccer.
A few teachers may also be helpless, and without waiting for them to answer, they retort, saying that they don't care what homework they write or how they play football.
Who knows, this parent is like being stabbed, and they fight indiscriminately.
For a while, the physical education teacher was accused of being too rigid and self-serving, which inhibited the independence of the students; After a while, I asked him why he wanted to teach a ** teacher to write calligraphy (this was originally a school regulation, and we, the ** teachers, were just in accordance with the rules and regulations of the school).
At the end of the day, they think that these teachers are not qualified to teach their children.
This is not over, she not only scolded the teacher to a bloody head, but also scolded the entire school system, and said that today's education has exhausted everyone, and "if there is no study, the children will relax, the parents will relax, and the teachers will also relax." ”
I also don't know how many mines her mother has, and her son doesn't need to go to school at all.
The conversation became more and more unsightly, and she began to sneer, even naming the teachers, saying that their homeroom teachers were foreign spies who deliberately hurt their students.
In order not to affect others, her homeroom teacher replied with an opinion, but was scolded by her parents, saying that she "can't trust you".
Sure enough, a person who talks about being cultured is actually not a cultured person.
As a melon-eating crowd, I was not angry because of this, but a little funny, on the one hand, I was ashamed of my parents, and on the other hand, I felt sorry for my homeroom teacher.
In fact, the question raised by this parent should not be a problem at all.
Most schools arrive before 8 o'clock, and in addition to the fact that students have to go to school, there is also a big reason that most parents have to start work before 8:30 and then come to work.
However, if the time arrives early, then the first to do it will be the parents who are often late.
So, getting to school at 8 a.m. is a good thing for most people, and there will be no conflict.
If primary school students are allowed to delay classes, it means that the normal life of the whole society will be postponed, which cannot be ignored.
Besides, since you're an elementary school student, aren't you going to school? Didn't you say that you would have to complete your studies within the stipulated time? Isn't it time to practice calligraphy? This is the rule of the school, the rule of the school, and the rule of the students.
If it is really like what this parent said, he can not come to class, he can not do homework, he can not do it, and even the teacher can scold him casually, then what else does his student come to do? It's almost the same to be a little princess at home.
Someone left a message below, saying that there is not much to learn in elementary school, and it doesn't matter if you go to school later.
In theory, this is indeed the case. However, when children begin to receive formal learning, from elementary school onwards, it will have a great impact on children's learning habits and interest in learning.
Parents should educate their children well, so that they can insist on going to bed early and waking up early every day, and do their homework on time.
A child's interest in learning must be cultivated by his own efforts, and he cannot be separated from the atmosphere of the school and the guidance of teachers.
Moreover, the mother also knows that the only way to get her son to go to bed earlier is to get up early. Don't sleep in, don't sleep lazy, don't worry about the nervousness after waking up, and you won't feel tired no matter how late you are.
Children also need to sleep, but they must have a good biological clock, and they can't let their babies sleep like this all the time.
To put it simply, this accident is mainly due to the fact that the family education of children is too relaxed, and the parents do not cultivate children's work and rest habits, and do not let children understand the importance of learning, so there is a conflict with school education.
When the parent saw that his opinion was not recognized, he let it go, and he had to interfere with the school's education.
This is an unsuccessful example of communication between home and school, and it also raises questions about the problems that exist in communication between school and home.
Nowadays, the Parent Committee has an increasing voice and influence in the school, and the school will also have close contact with parents through various channels.
However, if there is an improper method of communication, not only will it not achieve the desired effect of the parents, but will have the opposite effect.
Take taking a leave of absence, if your home is far away, your parents have something special at work, and you can't go to school on time, then you have to talk to the teacher, preferably in private.
This is done both for the convenience of others and for oneself.
The network has a memory, and any person can pass on **and**, making the whole network boil.
In the parent group, everyone's nickname is "xx dad" or "xx mom", so on the Internet, the conversation between the two people is "dad" or "mom".
On behalf of "their own children, express their thoughts in the WeChat group, but also take into account the situation of their own children, this matter is spread out, so that other children will hear it, it will inevitably be ridiculed and blamed."
The world of children may be far greater than we think, and it would be even more costly to have children excluded from school because of this.
If parents really want their children, then they can't push their children to the forefront and let them spend an ordinary primary school life in an ordinary way.
Only in this way, in a stable and stable life, will young children discover their hobbies and goals. Children's education