Since the creator Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan used to be a happy couple in the entertainment industry, the two have been married for many years, have a pair of children, and live a happy and sweet life. However, the two later broke up. 13 years after the breakup, they are still able to maintain a good friendship, which has aroused curiosity and questions.
Mai Hongmei was once Sun Nan's goddess, Sun Nan has admired Mai Hongmei for many years, and has collected a lot of things about her. He has never missed any shows to buy Hongmei, and his love for her has lasted for five whole years. Once, Sun Nan and her mother together ** bought Hongmei and Guo Donglin's sketch "Something You Say", and her mother praised her beauty when she saw Mai Hongmei for the first time. Sun Nan agrees very much, after all, she is his goddess, how can she not be good-looking?
Sun Nan originally thought that he and Mai Hongmei would never have an intersection, but an unexpected opportunity allowed them to meet at an event. Sun Nan was very excited in his heart, he couldn't help but go to a nearby flower shop and buy a bouquet of flowers and give it to Mai Hongmei. Mai Hongmei was reluctant to accept it at first, until she learned that Sun Nan was her fan and liked her for five years, and then accepted the bouquet. Sun Nan was even more excited when he saw that the goddess accepted his bouquet, so he confessed to Mai Hongmei, and Mai Hongmei actually agreed.
When they were together at the beginning, Mai Hongmei took Sun Nan home to meet her parents. Because Mai Hongmei promised her parents, she would definitely bring her lover home to meet. The parents who bought Hongmei were very satisfied with Sun Nan and had a good impression of him. Once during a meal, Sun Nan peeled a shrimp for his father-in-law, and his father-in-law was a little embarrassed and fled to the bedroom. Sun Nan chased the shrimp to the bedroom before sending the shrimp to his father-in-law's mouth. This interesting story caused Mai Hongmei to laugh out loud.
After Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan got married, the two were busy with work, Mai Hongmei was very good to Sun Nan and obeyed him in everything. Sun Nan wanted a daughter, so Mai Hongmei gave birth to a daughter for him. Later, Sun Nan wanted another son, and Mai Hongmei gave birth to another son for him. However, with the birth of the child, Sun Nan's career is getting better and better, and the pressure at work is also increasing. Whenever he encounters troubles, he will go to play golf, but he cares less and less about buying Hongmei. He didn't even notice that Mai Hongmei gained a lot of weight after giving birth. Mai Hongmei bears the double pressure of taking care of her children and work, her smile is getting less and less, and she feels very tired and lonely. When she was unhappy, she hoped to find Sun Nan to talk to, but found that he had gone to play golf again. So Mai Hongmei went for a walk on the beach alone, and one of them even went to the sea and was rescued by a stranger in time. The stranger thought that Mai Hongmei was going to jump into the sea if she couldn't think of it, and comforted and told her that life was still good. Mai Hongmei suddenly laughed, she was just distracted, and she didn't think about it.
After Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan got married for 9 years, the relationship between the two weakened, and the breakup became an inevitable ending. This marriage hit Mai Hongmei hard, and after the breakup, she became withdrawn, no longer willing to communicate with people, and always locked herself in her room. A lot of friends couldn't reach her because she turned off her phone and locked it in the cupboard. Mai Hongmei hated Sun Nan very much at first, feeling that their 9-year marriage was over, and there was no nostalgia. Only a few months later, Sun Nan married Pan Wei, which made Mai Hongmei even more painful.
In the 4 years after the breakup, Mai Hongmei gradually came out of the pain. When her friends saw that she had finally let go of her past, they were very happy. Although Mai Hongmei once held a grudge, she never said that Sun Nan was bad. After the breakup, Mai Hongmei took on the responsibility of raising her two children alone. Whenever the child misses his father, she sends the child to spend a few days with his father. After the breakup, although the two had little contact, they became more because of the children's affairs. They are willing to let go of the past for the sake of their children and become good friends.
Now, Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan have broken up for 13 years, but they still maintain a good relationship with each other and occasionally eat together. Mai Hongmei has been single since the breakup, and even though her two children have grown up and no longer need her to take care of them, she still hasn't thought about remarrying. Perhaps she has become accustomed to living alone and enjoying the freedom of solitude.
This marriage story of Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan has aroused people's thinking. What is it like for them to be able to maintain a good relationship after a breakup, even if there have been conflicts and hurts in the past? How is mutual tolerance and understanding cultivated? Why can such a rare case in the entertainment industry buy Hongmei and Sun Nan? What are the implications for marriage and love? These questions are worthy of our in-depth thinking and **.
Although Mai Hongmei and Sun Nan have broken up for many years, they have left a deep impression on people with their sense of responsibility for their children and family and their persistence in friendship. Their experiences are similar to many real-life marriage cases, and problems and challenges in marriage are everywhere. This story reminds us not only to pay attention to the sweetness and romance of love, but also to take the responsibilities and commitments of marriage seriously, learn to tolerate and understand, and support and protect each other in the face of adversity. Perhaps, such stories will give people something to think about and enlighten them about their own marriages and relationships.