Most of them are, and a small number of them are not.
Now that men get married, except for a few particularly capable men, most of the unmarried men really can't get married on their own financial resources alone, whether they want to get married or not, they can't get married if they don't have money. The house comes from, the stable job and income come from, and the good family conditions come from?
And these things are almost the necessary hard conditions for women to choose a mate. No, there may be someone who is willing to fall in love or live with you, but no one will actually marry you.
In this case, some of these men simply don't even talk about love, and it's okay to spend a little money on women, and they will turn around and leave when the amount is large. Hehe, this thing is really done in one step!
Men who meet these hard conditions are not in a hurry to get married, and the situation is reversed. It's a man picking a woman, a woman chasing a man, what is he anxious about? Anyway, there are not many men in society who meet the conditions for women to choose a mate, and they have become a scarce resource. As a man, he is not afraid of getting older, and there is no limit on the age of childbearing, and when he is in good health, he can have children at the age of eighty.
And women can't, whether it is childbearing age or appearance, compared to men, it is much shorter, she picks men for a short time, only 5 to 10 years, and the price drops after 30.
So at this point, unless women make up their minds to be single for the rest of their lives, if not, they are upright and unwilling to lower their conditions to marry, it is easy to put themselves in the embarrassing situation of wanting to marry but not being able to marry.
As a result, strange things have happened, our country has more men than women, but in the cities, the number of female singles is far greater than the number of male singles. If you think about it carefully, it seems to be very reasonable. Even if a man in the city is not in good condition, if he wants to get married, it is easier than a woman, he can't find a local one, he can find someone from other places, and if he can't find a city one, he can find a rural one.
But women's thinking is different from men's, they can't think about life and death, they bite the house, have a stable job, a stable income, and a good family background. But there are few men who have these things, and there are no leftovers, not just being older leftover women, what will be the result?
Whose fault is this, and who can blame it? To put it bluntly, don't you just want to eat ready-made, afraid of losses, and unwilling to pay!