In our hometown, whoever has a swallow's nest under the eaves of the house is very proud, and it is also considered to be a virtuous and benevolent home, a blessed and kind home.
Because there is an old saying, swallows never enter the house.
Sorrow, is the meaning of worry, a family is worried, there must be bad things, either economic problems, financial constraints, life hardship, or emotional problems, husband and wife are not harmonious, children are not compatible, in short, people worry about things in a family, the family will be restless or sigh, swallows are spiritual birds, they are unwilling to enter such a home to build a nest, let themselves and their offspring be afraid, maybe, one day, the main family will be angry with them, stabbed their nest.
The family of the swallow is willing to build a nest, the wind and rain must be smooth, the family is good-tempered, not irritable, kind by nature, full of joy at the arrival of the swallow, in the spring, the old swallow will return to the original home, continue to have children, their children, either in the next year in this house to build a new nest, or, will choose a good home again.
Spring is coming, the chirping swallows are back, and the people with the swallow's nest are also looking forward to the old swallow's homecoming, after all, there is a small courtyard with swallows murmuring, full of fresh and cheerful atmosphere, as for the swallows will pull a lot of poop under their nests, experienced people will block a wooden board or plastic sheet under the swallow's nest, and clean it up in time.
In our hometown, I have observed and verified that there are not many yards with swallow's nests, and the families living in the yards are rich and poor, but all of them are kind and harmonious families.
Swallows will choose their own nest family, they like a quiet and happy home, happy families are similar, and unfortunate families have their own misfortunes, daily noisy, bad mood, will think that the swallows are annoying, will think that the swallows are unhygienic, maybe one day will drive away the swallows, in fact, just they themselves are not happy, angry with the innocent swallows.
Think about it, if the negative emotions of the parents are too heavy, it will make the children more depressed, and the children can't escape from the original family, and can't make choices like the swallows.
What parents need to do is to create a good living environment, so that their personality and emotions are stable, so as to convey an optimistic concept of life, so that children and families have a good expectation and future.