"You love the sea, I loved you".
In the year he broke up with Kan Qingzi, Ji Lingchen used this sentence to express his response to the end of their relationship. However, he definitely didn't expect that just the breakup of the two would put him in a difficult situation in the entertainment industry.
Even a few years after the breakup, it was even difficult for him to receive a short drama, until he expressed on a show why he had been "ridiculed" for the "romantic ending", which confused him, who had served as "Brother Dahai" for six years.
Is all this just because Ji Lingchen said "I like the sea"? In fact, as early as 2017, in a variety show, people could see everything ...... from Ji Lingchen's attitude
In the "Infinite Transcendence Version" program on February 25, when I saw Ji Lingchen, I remembered that he had broken up with Kan Qingzi for six years. In the past six years, Ji Lingchen has rarely had job opportunities, and even in the most difficult moments, he can't even receive a low-cost short drama.
He participated in this show to change the status quo and hope to let more people know that he still has acting skills. In the show, he said that he didn't expect that the end of a relationship would cause him to be called "Brother Dahai" by netizens for 6 years.
When the two of them broke up in 2018, Ji Lingchen once clarified Kan Qingzi's Weibo, accompanied by the text "You like the sea, I loved you".
It is precisely because of these nine short words that Ji Lingchen's name has become "Brother Dahai". Since then, people may hesitate to mention Ji Lingchen's name, but when they mention "Brother Dahai", they can immediately think of him.
Ji Lingchen has hardly worked in the past six years, and he firmly believes that all this is due to the "sea remarks" he has made in the past. In one show, he said: "However, I think that sentence is quite romantic and there is nothing wrong with it. I still don't understand why people are still laughing at me. ”
The hit TV series "Cloud Feather" directed by Guo Jingming will be broadcast in the winter of 2023, in which Ji Lingchen also plays a role.
At that time, Guo Jingming spent a lot of money and energy for this play, and spared no expense to invite many actors to participate, and told them: "I came to participate in the filming of this drama in order to capture your best side in the best moments of your lives." ”
Ji Lingchen found peace of mind here, even if he participated in this play, he could ensure that others would not recognize him. In the play, Ji Lingchen plays a character who leaves the scene as soon as he appears, even if there is a camera, many people do not realize that this is Ji Lingchen.
The Gongmen Men's Group "set off a storm, and almost all the actors in this drama are popular, but Ji Lingchen is not. He was unwilling in his heart, and as soon as he appeared in the variety show "Infinite Transcendence Class", it was like a raging fire, determined to prove his innocence here.
I don't even understand why those nine words caused me to lose my job, even if Ling Chen went to the crew to audition at these ages, even if the director loves his performance, the final role will not be given to him.
Do netizens really dislike him because of "the sea speaks"? Did Ji Lingchen really lose the audience's support just because of nine words? Actually, it's not that simple.
November 30, 2015. Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi's Weibo announcing the news quickly became a hot search topic soon after it was released, and the comment area was full of blessings for them, after all, their happiness was so touching.
In the eyes of the outside world, the names of the couple Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi are like the names of the heroes and heroines in **, plus the appearance of both of them is very outstanding, it is a perfect match. Therefore, their public relationship has been well received by netizens.
Their love period was sweet and high-profile, and they seemed eager to announce it to the world, first they were photographed by netizens holding hands walking around the Louvre, and then they won the "Most Popular Fashion Group of the Year Award" together, all of which seem to be stories that will appear in the **plot.
As a result, the two became a "model of love" at that time, and some netizens even commented, "If love can be named, then it will definitely be called Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi."
Although the age difference between the two is 5 years, Kan Qingzi is full of girlishness, and she is more like a little girl with Ji Lingchen, which also happens to dilute the age difference between them. However, in terms of career, there is also a big gap between Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi.
Kan Qingzi was already a well-known actor at that time, but Ji Lingchen was just a college student who had not yet graduated. He first entered the entertainment industry, appearing only once on the runway of Milan Fashion Week, and he brought far less attention than Kan Qingzi.
However, in the eyes of the two people in love, none of this is a problem, and they always believe that as long as there is "love", they can overcome everything.
Ji Lingchen entered the public eye because of his relationship with Kan Qingzi, and also got a job opportunity, for him at that time, love and career were both fruitful, but he didn't expect that the time between the two of them that everyone envied was so short, and it only lasted for two ......
In 2017, Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen participated in Mango Channel's variety show "Dear Inn" as resident guests, which is a reality show, and also invited the couple Liu Tao and Wang Ke to participate.
However, unexpectedly, in this show, the audience saw Liu Tao and Wang Ke's daily relationship, and had a new view of this envied young couple.
In that variety show, although Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen occasionally get along sweetly, more often they quarrel with each other. Although Ji Lingchen always tried to coax Kan Qingzi, in fact, many times it was Ji Lingchen who provoked conflicts for no reason.
In variety shows, viewers often see Kan Qingzi's mood swings, which makes people generally think that she is too sensitive. But in fact, behind this is because Ji Lingchen did not give her enough security, which caused Kan Qingzi to always hesitate in her relationship, feeling that Ji Lingchen loved her deeply, but also felt that he was indifferent and ruthless to her.
The two often mentioned "breaking up", but neither of them would bow their heads first. Whoever says "break up", the other responds with "whatever".
All this stems from Ji Lingchen's failure to give Kan Qingzi enough security, and the hesitant Kan Qingzi can only probe whether Ji Lingchen still loves her by saying "break up".
Ji Lingchen's disdain for Kan Qingzi is manifested in many small details, such as when Kan Qingzi frequently uses emotions to attract Ji Lingchen's attention, he thinks that she has become "made".
From these details, it is evident whether a person truly loves another person or not. Maybe Ji Lingchen once loved Kan Qingzi, but now this relationship seems to be slowly becoming a thing of the past.
When Kan Qingzi proposed that she wanted to marry him, Ji Lingchen's reaction became more obvious. His hesitation and silence about Kan Qingzi's desire to marry expressed that he no longer loved her as much as he used to. And the mistake he made was to constantly deprive Kan Qingzi of the last "desirable".
He is a college student who is in college, but he gets together with Kan Qingzi, who has already played several classic roles. Almost all of his career opportunities stem from the fact that he is "Kan Qingzi's boyfriend", but Kan Qingzi is 5 years older than him. He is in the prime of his youth, and Kan Qingzi needs someone to rely on.
He only wants to be in love, and he doesn't want to be responsible for Kan Qingzi. Liu Tao once said: "If you don't marry her before she turns 30, maybe she doesn't want to get married after she turns 30." Ji Lingchen knew very well what he was doing, and this was exactly what he longed for the most.
In 2018 after the breakup, Kan Qingzi concentrated on his career and performed better and better, while Ji Lingchen expressed his sadness on the variety show, saying "I don't know what happened in the past few years", but in fact, nothing has changed.
Before being with Kan Qingzi, he was just an unknown college student, and after the breakup, he just returned to his original state.