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When a child is happy and laughing, we can always share happiness with him. But when the child is sad and crying, we always feel irritable and ask him not to cry. Aren't we selfish like this?
Crying and laughing, like laughter, are both emotional expressions of children, and we need to share them with our children.
In the face of crying, blindly stopping it excessively will make the child feel ununderstood, but cry more fiercely.
Therefore, we must learn to channel children's crying emotions and remember 4 to 4 don'ts.
Four don'ts: First, don't reprimand and stop, this is restricting the reasonable expression of children's emotions, which will make children more aggrieved and uncomfortable. Second, don't let it go, cold violence is to ignore the child's sad feelings, and the child will be more angry because he has been neglected. Third, don't talk about big truths, because when both adults and children cry, they can't listen to any reason. Fourth, don't compromise at will, unprincipled obedience and doting are harmful.
Fourth: First, be calm, don't let your children's emotions lead your emotions, calm can better solve the problem. Second, to empathize, first stand on the united front with the child, guide the child to channel his emotions, and let him cry to his heart's content. Third, express that you give your child a hug, say I love you, and let your child know that you care about him. Fourth, it is necessary to review, and after the child calms down, he should be given positive value guidance.
Maybe the children are not very cute when they cry, but this is often the time when they need love.
Parents, have you remembered?
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