On the silent stage, hints are like a breeze, gently blowing through the heartstrings and making people's hearts ripple. The language of suggestion, it is not ostentatious, but it can penetrate into people's hearts.
In the world of suggestion, you can feel the endless possibilities and profound wisdom.
1. Hints in social situations
In social situations, people often use cues to convey their intentions and thoughts. Sometimes these hints are obvious, but other times they require careful observation to understand.
1. We will also find some clever hints at the party table. When you first meet, after the big set is warm and polite, you start drinking and chatting, chatting and chatting, and when you see other people looking at their phones, it means that the party should be over.
At this point, the person organizing the party stood up and said, "Shall we order another meal today?" What else is needed? Let's stop here today."
So, everyone said, thank you for the hospitality, you ate well, let's stop here today.
2. I once had a chat with a friend who met me for the first time, and we had a great chat. Then, suddenly, she looked at her watch and said, "It's not early." ”
I immediately understood her hint, so I said, okay, let's do this first, and we'll talk about it next time.
Through her words and actions, I understood her implication that she wanted to end the conversation. This hint allowed me to avoid embarrassing situations.
2. Hints in the workplace
1. In the workplace, colleagues often use hints to convey their intentions and ideas.
At work, one day, one of my staff members said: "Their classmates are also in other units, and they participated in the work at the same time, and they were quickly promoted, and now, they are all section chiefs."
His words were full of hints that made me understand his intentions.
He hinted that he wanted to get a certain position, but he didn't say it directly. Through his words and actions, I understood his implication that he wanted to be a candidate for that position.
2. When I first joined the work, the masses came to reflect the problem, and once, I was busy rushing the materials, and I didn't care about receiving the visiting masses.
In a later chat, the director mentioned that the masses are no trivial matter, and that we should pay attention to ways and means to treat the masses, and no matter how busy we are with our hands, we must take the initiative to receive them and understand the situation.
When the two of us looked at each other, we knew the hint in the director's words.
3. Hints in intimate relationships
In intimate relationships, people also often use hints to convey their intentions and thoughts.
I was chatting with my mom. She suddenly stopped and said, "My friends all have daughters to accompany them, and they come to the house every week?" Or: "We're all fine, don't worry about food, don't worry about clothing, and our bodies are fine, don't worry about us."
I know her hint is that she misses her daughter and wants her to be by her side. They actually need company, and I don't have time in another country, in fact, I'm looking forward to our return.
Through her words and deeds, I understood her hints, so I often called the family, chatted more, and told my parents about my current situation. When we have time, we often go home to see.
4. Hints in everyday life
1. When I first arrived in Beijing, I couldn't drive, and once, I needed to transport a folding bed to the north of the city, so I asked a friend's father to drive.
Unexpectedly, when it was almost there, he was caught by the traffic police because the car turned and pressed the yellow line. When I got out of the car, I was so anxious that I was about to cry when I saw that I was going to deduct points.
Before the police issued the ticket, he glanced at me, probably seeing that I was a little girl, and with tears in his eyes, he thought about it for a while and asked the driver: Are you the first time to commit a crime?
We were all stunned and didn't speak, and he asked again: Are you committing it for the first time?
The driver understands in seconds: yes, yes, yes.
Traffic police: Okay, next time you have to pay attention, don't break the law again.
Later, we drove out for a distance before we thought, Mom! The police are trying to let me go.
2. Once, I was driving, and there was a car next to me driving side by side, and he honked his horn vigorously on the side, but I ignored it.
At the red light, we all stopped the car, he rolled down the window and shouted at me, "Your front tire is flat, it's dangerous."
I drove to the side of the road, got out of the car and looked, really, it was too dangerous.
3. On the highway, I drove the car and galloped at a speed of 150 miles. Suddenly, I noticed that the big truck in front of me flashed double and then turned left with its lights. I immediately slowed down and turned on a double flash at the same time.
Sure enough, there was an accident at the front of the road.
His hints, I understood in seconds, ensured the safe driving state of the vehicle.
There are all kinds of cues around us, and as long as we observe and think carefully, we can better understand the cues of others, so as to avoid embarrassing situations and make communication smoother and more natural.
In your life, "What are some of the moments when you understand other people's cues?"