It is impossible to live happily in the face of someone you no longer love, and some children have to put down their bodies and commit themselves to marriage for the sake of their children. But today's protagonists are different, although they have children, marriage or divorce, children, or change to take care of them.
The man has a gentle personality and is very responsible for the family. And the woman is a teacher, independent and strong. Due to her busy work, the wife devotes most of her time and energy to the education of the school, while the husband silently supports her behind the scenes.
As time passed, the contradictions between the two began to emerge. Because of her busy work and strong personality, her wife rarely has time to sit down and have an in-depth exchange with Li Hao. The husband, although he understands his wife's work pressure, longs for more love and companionship.
The birth of the child brought a touch of joy to the family, but at the same time it also exacerbated the conflict between the two. They want to give their children a complete home, but the gap between them is getting deeper and deeper. They try to encourage themselves with words like "you can't always use divorce to avoid problems" and try to manage the marriage.
However, as time went on, both men felt exhausted. They understand that instead of continuing to consume like this, they should choose to separate and give each other a new beginning. So, they decided to limit it to one year, and if within that year, they still couldn't find a solution to the problem, they broke up peacefully.
Over the course of the year, they tried to communicate and understand each other, but they never seemed to be able to bridge the invisible chasm. Eventually, they decided to end the marriage, which had existed in name only.
After the divorce, although the two no longer have the status of husband and wife, they are still the parents of the child. As a teacher, my wife understands the importance of education, and she hopes to provide the best environment for her child's growth even when she is not with him. Therefore, she often uses her holidays and weekends to visit him with a large bag of things that the child likes and spend happy hours with him.
And the husband silently guarded them. He understands that this is her way of expressing her maternal love and one of the ways he loves his children deeply as a father. He opted out to give the mother and son space to themselves so they could get closer together.
Although the two have separated, the tacit understanding and cooperation between them has not diminished because of this. They regularly communicate with the child's development, altogether.
Discuss how to better educate and guide children. They understand that even after the marriage is over, they still need to be happy and grow for their children.
That's the end of the story, a neighbor who knows about it posted this incident on the Internet, which attracted a lot of empathy from the father.
Many netizens think that this father is very responsible and smart. He recognized that divorce did not mean withdrawing from the role of father. Even though the relationship with his ex-wife has ended, as the father of the child, he knows that his responsibilities and obligations still exist, so he actively participates in the child's growth process, works harder to communicate with the child, and gives the child a strong sense of trust.
In addition, he provides a stable and supportive environment for the children. After the divorce, he did not prevent his ex-wife from meeting the children for the sake of his own private domain, but tried his best to create a stable and harmonious family atmosphere so that the children felt safe and accepted.
Divorce does not mean not loving children, but it means loving children in a more mature and rational way. They understand that a child's growth requires a complete family environment and the mutual love and support of parents. Therefore, even though they have separated, they still care about the growth of their children as a family.
In real life, many people tend to see divorce as a failure and shame, and ignore the profound meaning behind divorce. Divorce does not mean failure and shame, but rather a new beginning and growth. Just like this father and his ex-wife, they re-examined their lives and values through divorce, found new direction and motivation, and lived their lives well.
This story reminds us that as parents, our responsibility is not only to give our children life and material satisfaction, but also to give them spiritual love and support. Even if we are separated, we should work together for the happiness and growth of our children, just like this father and ex-wife. This kind of love is selfless, deep, and most precious.
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