From the south to the north, the cattle vigorously pursue the humble
In the period-themed TV series "South to North", this thought-provoking question is like a warm fire, igniting the curiosity of countless audiences. The emotional entanglement between Yao Yuling and Niu Dali seems to transcend the ordinariness of life and become a gripping legend.
First of all, let's review Niu Dali's life trajectory in "South to North". He, who used to be a boilermaker on the train, silently followed the beautiful flight attendant Yao Yuling, even if he was considered to have no future, he was not discouraged. Now, Niu Dali has become a veritable boss of the rich side, and his counterattack is remarkable. However, his success is not just for himself, but more for the woman he has loved for half his life - Yao Yuling.
Yao Yuling, a woman known as "a flower", was once the focus of people's eyes. However, with Jia Jinlong's arrest, her life has changed dramatically. has changed from a fashionable girl who doesn't care about her image to a "simple aunt" who sells skewers in order to make a living. Yao Yuling's fate seems to be a ruthless joke, which makes people sigh.
And the relationship between Niu Dali and Yao Yuling is even more confusing. Niu Dali, who was once considered to have no future, has now become the boss of the rich side; And Yao Yuling, who was once proud of marrying into a wealthy family, is still worried about three meals a day. The trajectory of their lives has changed 180 degrees, and this contrast can't help but make people lament the impermanence of life.
Niu Dali's obsession and behavior towards Yao Yuling are even more moving. He always believes that Yao Yuling is the "white moonlight" in his life and the driving force of his struggle. In order to pursue Yao Yuling, he quit his stable job, went to the sea to do business, and even spent all his savings to buy a gold ring to propose to Yao Yuling. However, this sincere affection was rejected. The gold ring has become a symbol of his unwillingness, and it has also become his attachment to this relationship.
Finally, let's talk about Niu Dali's placing the gold ring on Yao Yuling's barbecue stand. This behavior makes people wonder whether Niu Dali is out of sympathy or obsession with Yao Yuling? I think that when Niu vigorously put down this ring, he let go of his obsession with Yao Yuling, and also let go of his past life and feelings. The gold ring became a symbol of his letting go of his obsessions and a way for him to say goodbye to the past. From then on, Niu Dali no longer looked for Yao Yuling everywhere with a gold ring, nor did he do anything for Yao Yuling. At this moment, he completely let go of his obsession with Yao Yuling and released himself.
The story of Niu Dali and Yao Yuling in "South to North" may be just a touch of scenery in life, but it deeply touches our heartstrings. In this ever-changing world, the story of Niu Dali and Yao Yuling seems to tell the difficulties of life and the twists and turns of emotions. Their experiences make us think about the meaning of life and the true meaning of love.
Perhaps, Niu Dali put the gold ring on Yao Yuling's barbecue stand, not to pursue her again, nor out of sympathy or obsession. Rather, it is a release and liberation of the mind. He realizes that the obsession of the past is only a shackle that binds him, and that true happiness does not lie in chasing someone who does not belong to him, but in letting go of the past and cherishing the present.
This story teaches us that feelings are complex and subtle. Sometimes, we cling to someone or something that is not worthy, but in the end we only end up in a quagmire of misery. Letting go of obsessions and freeing the mind may be the true way to liberation.