Do you have a very likable friend around you that everyone likes? They don't necessarily have idol looks or any special achievements, but you will always be touched by his thoughtfulness and carefulness, and they will be highly regarded in everyone's hearts.
In fact, whether a person is likable or not has a lot to do with ordinary words and deeds.
People who are full of good feelings usually have the following 10 details, if they are a little lacking, it doesn't matter, now slowly add them up, and prepare for good popularity and good luck.
Talk to people in the group who have a low sense of presence
In a large group, there will always be a silent role assignment, some people are the focus, and some people are small and transparent. If he feels left out, help to give a sentence of concern and bring a topic; If he is uncomfortable, make a ball to let him go first, and escape the situation for them that is difficult to save themselves, such empathetic kindness will quickly bring them closer to each other.
When a person is surrounded and teased
Take the initiative to change the subject
Don't fall into the well with others, it's not about pretending to be high, but helping others and protecting yourself at the same time. Everyone can be the subject of discussion, and once you become the protagonist next time, the person you helped last time will also come back to help you take the topic away.
Do not open or privately
I don't criticize people and things casually
No matter how expert you are, everyone's preferences are different, if you can respect others even if you don't like them, don't criticize at will, and don't give advice with a high posture, you will not only gain more goodwill but also gain respect.
Be helped, in addition to saying thank you
Remember to give blessings or reciprocated on important holidays
In addition to verbal thanks, if you can express your heart on important holidays, simple congratulations, not too expensive gifts, let others know that you have always put gratitude in your heart, not only will the relationship last longer, but will also be happy to lend a hand to you again next time.
Something sent by someone else
Treat it with care whether you like it or not
Gifts are not measured in money. Even if you don't like it, you can't forget that giving gifts is your heart, and those who are willing to give gifts have affection for you. While treating the gifts you receive with your heart, you can also make the other person feel valued, and this respect will show that you are a person who deserves to be treated, and if you have dealings, others will be doubly good to you.
Secretly remember other people's preferences and birthdays
Or any little thing that makes sense to him
I like strawberry ice cream, eat French fries without tomato sauce ...; Birthdays, how old the family puppy is, such trivial things can only be remembered by those who care about you. It's hard not to feel a good impression of you when you remember it silently.
Pay attention to the agreement between the parties
Invite more, don't reschedule casually, and don't be late
If you already have a certain friendship, remember to make more invitations, meet each other when you have the opportunity, rest assured that you can make an appointment with each other, arrange your itinerary in advance, do not change the date casually, do not be late often, when you become a reliable and credible person, others will naturally be willing to contact you more, and even introduce good job opportunities and contacts to you.
Lower the volume in public
Slogans can be seen everywhere, but when you pick up ** or walk with friends, you will start to forget yourself and unconsciously affect others. Not amplifying the sound on your phone unless necessary, taking off your headphones when talking to people, and controlling the volume of your chat will make you appear self-disciplined, respectful, and attractive to observe subtle people.
When you open and close the door, just give the person behind you a hand
When you get a paper towel after eating, take a copy for the person at the table, pick up the scattered change for the person, and help the door for the person behind you, these gestures will not only make the heart of the person being helped instantly warm, but also the key to showing self-cultivation and thoughtfulness.
Be polite to the clerks and waiters
In the case of not being able to see the appearance, polite people will be the first to win the favor of others, say that the delivery man has worked hard, give a little tip to the driver who helps carry the luggage, and be polite to the waiter, these small details of politeness will shape your temperament, know how to be considerate to strangers, no one does not like.