32-year-old Li Ming, who works in Guangzhou with a monthly salary of 18,000, met a girl from Chongqing. Perhaps because of our shared hometown, we have a special emotional connection with each other, and even when we are busy, we maintain communication on a daily basis. Half a year later, I returned to my hometown and saw her again, and my heart swelled with endless admiration.
After three days in Chongqing, we decided on a love relationship. I bought a set of cosmetics worth 6,000 for her, and I was deeply attracted by her beauty and simplicity. I am grateful to God for giving me such a wonderful gift, and my heart is full of happy longing, hoping to build a happy family with her.
At the end of the year, I returned to my hometown in Hunan, because she was busy with work, and she was not free until the 28th of the lunar month. We spent the New Year together, I went to her house on the fourth day of the new year, and she returned to Guangzhou with me on the sixth day of the new year. My mother generously gave her a gift of $10,000, and our relationship became stronger.
However, after returning to Guangzhou, we began to discuss the future. I wanted her to come to Guangzhou to work, but she wanted me to come back to Chongqing. I bear all of our living expenses, and her salary is almost entirely for family expenses. However, the work did not go well, and I had to give up my high-paying job in Guangzhou and return to Chongqing.
After starting to live together, problems followed. She doesn't know how to do housework and doesn't want to study. Every day after work, she either went to the beauty shop or went shopping with friends, and I did all the housework and covered all our expenses.
Our conflict eventually erupted over her dog. She wanted to have a dog, but I didn't agree. However, one night, I came home to find that she had bought a puppy. I can't accept this reality, but I can't say anything either.
The arrival of puppies has brought endless troubles to our lives. The house was full of dog hair, and the dogs were pulling everywhere, but she was unwilling to clean it. I wanted to give the dog away, but she didn't agree. Our conflict deepened, and finally I decided to propose a breakup.
Over the years, my expectations for her have become lower and lower, and I feel that she is not the right fit for me. I didn't know what to do, I was very confused. What do you think I should do?