Unexpectedly, not long after Mr. Huang officially announced that his identity had changed from "Mr. Huang" to "Mother Huang", he appeared at the police station to call the police.
It turned out that during the time when Teacher Huang was concentrating on taking care of the baby, someone actually made yellow rumors for her.
The cause of the incident was that a netizen named "Tianwang" showed off to other group members on social platforms: "Guess who I dated?" ”
He also described: "At the beginning, I pretended to be with me, and it didn't come out until 30,000. ”
Not only that, but he also uploaded a 33-minute **and some***
The news immediately spread on the Internet, and some netizens who did not know the truth even began to attack Mr. Huang.
Mr. Huang's former colleagues came forward to clarify, saying that Mr. Huang had left his post and would report the matter to the leadership to decide whether to call the police.
And Teacher Huang soon received a reminder from her friends, and when she opened the comment area of her work, many people had already left messages asking her for the truth.
At first, she thought that the clearer would clear herself, but the spread of rumors was beyond imagination, so Mr. Huang did not hesitate anymore and chose to call the police to collect evidence.
In fact, if you look closely, you will find that the woman in ** is a big flower arm, and she is obviously not the same person as Mr. Huang.
Although most netizens questioned the authenticity of the rumors, there were always some people who said the yellow rumors conclusively.
And Mr. Huang has been plagued by rumors since he became popular with the children's rhyme "Dig Ya Dig", from being accused of planning for an Internet celebrity company, to being rumored to resign, a live broadcast of 2 million, etc., these rumors have brought endless pressure to Mr. Huang.
This time, he even made pornographic rumors during Mr. Huang's lactation, which is really hateful.
Although rumors stop at the wise, justice also needs to be guarded.
This time, in the face of the so-called "going to the sea" turmoil, Mr. Huang did not sit still, but used the law to protect himself.
If the person who creates pornographic rumors does not pay a certain price, then there will be countless people who will follow this unbearable way to slander a girl in the future.
A rumor, especially a yellow rumor, can really ruin a girl's life, this kind of thing is not only encountered by Internet celebrities like Mr. Huang, but you and me in real life may be victims.
A few years ago, "a young woman in Hangzhou picked up a courier and was derailed by rumors" The same thing happened.
In this case, although the rumor-monger was held criminally responsible, the life of the rumor-mongering lady was seriously affected for a long time.
At first, she was "socially killed" and couldn't find a job, and the rumor-monger's apology was insincere, and even thought it was just a joke.
In the end, the rumor-mongering lady could only file a criminal private prosecution to hold the rumor-monger responsible.
To be honest, women tend to be very passive when faced with being made pornographic rumors.
Many women are even overwhelmed and ashamed, but they haven't done anything wrong.
In the movie "Keep You Safe", Han Lu donated more than 1 million yuan, and after his death, he was rumored that the money was "**", and no one who participated in the rumor spreading process had ever seen Han Lu.
Not even the person who posted the rumor in the first place had ever met Han Lu, let alone whether they knew Han Lu or not.
And the reason for the rumors is just to be able to watch 99 paid ** for a chapter, if you need a hot review, you can smear it at will.
In the movie, the character played by Li Xueqin said:When you open your mouth and say that a woman is a young lady, whether she is or not, she is already there.
It's scary to think about, it's also really scary, no one wants to believe the truth, only what they want to believe.
Fortunately, in the movie, there is a brother Ping An who pursues the truth and adheres to his original intention, and finally seeks justice for Han Lu.
But in real life, the pink-haired girl who recorded sharing the admission letter with her grandfather on the hospital bed was not only abused online, but also made pornographic rumors.
She suffered from depression because of the rumors, and she told others before her death:If I die, will the society be able to pay attention to cyberbullying, or make these people who speak out ashamed for a lifetime.
In the end, she chose to leave at the best age.
Indeed, her death made the society pay attention to cyberbullying, but it did not make the rumor-mongers feel guilty.
The pink-haired girl did nothing wrong but paid with her life, and the rumormongers were unscathed.
I remember that some time ago, I heard a few colleagues whispering in the company's boiling water room, I leaned in and listened, and I was actually talking about a female colleague being fostered, I asked them how they knew, and the answer was that everyone else said so.
It is true that this female colleague is very beautiful**, has no boyfriend and is not married, but these are not the reasons why she is so criticized.
A sentence that everyone else says this really makes me speechless, and we are also women, should we say no to this kind of irresponsible rumors.
I don't know if this rumor-mongered female colleague is aware of what everyone is talking about in private.
However, I think there is a sentence in Mr. Huang's clarification ** that is correct:I hope that one day in the future, everyone will not have to fall into a "self-proof crisis" again.
Self-proof is a trap, you can never prove yourself, and the more you prove yourself, the more you will be picked by the egg.
It has been said that if someone wrongfully accuses you of eating something from him, you should not cut open your own stomach to prove your innocence, you should gouge out his eyes and swallow it so that he can see clearly in your stomach.
Probably, how should girls deal with yellow rumors correctly?
There are many female friends on the Internet who share cases of how to fight back in the face of being made pornographic rumors.
First of all, when you find yourself being made a pornographic rumor, you must stay calm in addition to being angryDon't delete messages that are not good for you because of shame or fear.
At the same time as calling the police, seek advice from a lawyer, do not prove yourself, and cannot be silent.
If you meet a "high-mouthed person" and are made a pornographic joke, you must not laugh with it.
Pretend not to understand them, and then ask them to explain that it's funny, because once the harasser has to explain what the inappropriate joke is funny, they won't laugh.
was made a pornographic rumor in the workplace, had an improper relationship with the boss or was adopted, and there is no need to explain, some netizens shared that when they encountered this situation, they immediately called the police and said, "I was **, someone saw it".
directly forced the rumor-mongers to admit that they were rumor-mongers.
Also, if you are threatened by the privacy of the P-chart, don't admit it.
Let the other party prove why it is you, and if the other party has no evidence, it is a false accusation, then you have the evidence of his crime.
Either way, each of us has to do what the rumors are:Yes yes, no yes no.
There is no such thing as others saying that, I also say so, and there is no such thing as characterizing others by appearance.
I hope every girl can be safe and happy.