A few days ago, I saw such an incident on the Internet, a girl with a high appearance posted a **photo on social **, with the text saying"It's so beautiful to wear full makeup today"。Originally, this was just an ordinary **, but there were a lot of offensive comments underneath, such as"That's it? It's so beautiful"、"Makeup can't hide your ugliness"、"It's ridiculous that you're so proud"Wait a minute. It is shocking and incomprehensible that the vast majority of these vicious words come from other women.
1. Drawing on life experience, it shows that the phenomenon of female infighting is common
Looking back on his life experience, in fact, girls stabbing the same sex in the back and fighting in the back can be seen everywhere. For example, when I was in school, I was isolated and excluded by the girls in my class, because I was jealous that I was beautiful and popular with boys; After work, he was looked at and suspicious by his colleagues, and was appreciated by his superiors because of his outstanding ability; Or in social occasions, he was slapped and judged by other girls, thinking that his dress was too ** or too plain.
2. Analyze some potential causes of female infighting
There may be several potential reasons why women hurt the same sex in this way: first, it stems from inner inferiority complex and fear of the same sex, for fear that they will lose the attention of men; secondly, the influence of society on the objectified thinking of women's appearance, which equates the value of women with their youthful appearance; There is also a societal expectation of women"Gentle and virtuous"The traditional stereotype is related to the fact that women are ridiculed when they dress up out of line. In general, some women have an innate suspicion and hostility towards other women.
3. Call for tolerance and goodwill to resolve grievances
As women are half of society, we should appreciate and tolerate women with different personalities and lifestyles, rather than hurting fellow travelers so much. We must use the vision of friendship and tolerance, and use the power of wisdom and gentleness to resolve this grievance, instead of reducing others to the dust. With a kind and helpful attitude, we will work together to improve the overall social status of women.
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Finally, I would like to say to those women who speak wildly and hurtfully: please think twice before you say or do. Different women have different unique charms, and we are not in a position to judge them too much. We should treat each other with appreciation and kindness, and use the power of friendship to make our lives no longer bitter and yearn for a new world.