"Mom, come home with me, I'll raise you"."No, sonMom is so sorry for youHow can I trouble you now? Just leave me to fend for myself, I'm my age, leave me alone."
An old lady said with tears in her eyes as she lay on a hospital bed.
A middle-aged man standing next to him also burst into tears, and next to him, there was an elderly man sitting on a chair, covering his face with his hands, and tears also flowed between his fingers, but he didn't say a word, it turned out that he felt embarrassed to speak.
What really happened between them? Why did the old lady say she was sorry for her son? And who is that old man? Is he the wife of an old lady and the father of a middle-aged man?
This is a touching and poignant story.The old man is not the father of the middle-aged man, but the wife of the old lady, but the two are only married, and there is no marriage certificate. The two lived together for forty years, but they never arrivedCivil Affairs BureauCheck in.
The middle-aged man's name is Zhou Bin (pseudonym), the elderly man's name is Wang Zhikang (pseudonym), and the old lady's name is Zhou Wenyu (pseudonym).
One day in 2022, the old lady Zhou Wenyu suddenly had a cerebral thrombosis and was paralyzed in bed, but Wang Zhikang did not take out a penny to see her.
The current hospitalization expenses are all paid by Zhou Bin, Wang ZhikangOriginally, he had 80,000 yuan in savingsWhy don't you pay for it? It turned out that the money had already been taken by the second daughter.
After the old lady fell ill, Wang Zhikang once asked for the money, but the second daughter Wang Hui (pseudonym) refused to return it to him.
When she took the money, she said that she would keep the money for them, for fear that the two of them would be old and have poor memory, and then make a mistake.
Wang Zhikang is indeed very old, 85 years old this year, and Zhou Wenyu is 75 years old this year.Wang Zhikang has a total of three daughters, and the three daughters have already discussed, this money is not for them to be greedy, but to leave it for Wang Zhikang to retire in the future. They believe that Zhou Wenyu and Wang Zhikang have not registered their marriage, and they do not need to support her, so they are not obliged to pay this money.
At first, Wang Zhikang insisted on opposing this, but the three daughters kept lobbying, and in the end, he was also moved and did not continue to ask the three daughters for money.
The three daughters who are so ruthless are actually very close to Zhou Wenyu, so why are they still reluctant to give the money to the old lady for treatment? All this has to start with the story of Zhou Wenyu and Wang Zhikang.
When Zhou Wenyu and Wang Zhikang's three daughters were very young, Zhou Bin's parents divorced, and at that time, Zhou Bin lived with his father, while Zhou Wenyu went out to work.
The place where she worked was the small restaurant opened by Wang Zhikang, and Wang Zhikang was also alone at that time.
Wang Zhikang's wife died because of illness, and the three daughters were not yet adults.
Zhou Wenyu is very good to these three daughters, takes care of their daily life, has always raised them, and also considered them to get married.
After the three daughters got married, the hotel was also closed, Zhou Wenyu helped the three daughters take care of the children, the three daughters were very grateful, and the eldest daughter bought a house for the old couple and provided daily living expenses.
Wang Zhikang originally thought that his old age life was quite satisfactory, but who would have thought that one day during dinner, 75-year-old Zhou Wenyu suddenly fell illBecause he couldn't use a mobile phone, he had to quickly find a neighbor and ask the neighbor to call his three daughters.
Unexpectedly, none of the three daughters would come, in fact, the second daughter lived in the same building as Wang Zhikang, but she refused to respond when she knocked on the doorThere was really no way, so Wang Zhikang contacted Zhou Bin.
Zhou Bin was about to rush over, but he was out of town and had no time at all, so he asked the neighbors to help Wang Zhikang send his mother to the hospital first.
But at this time, Wang Zhikang hesitated, it turned out that the 80,000 yuan was taken by his second daughter before Zhou Wenyu fell ill. Later, at the insistence of his neighbors, Zhou Wenyu was sent to the hospital.
After Zhou Wenyu was hospitalized, the three daughters refused to come and see, at the beginning, the neighbors and Wang Zhikang were busy in the hospital, until Zhou Bin came, Wang Zhikang and the neighbors were relieved.
Zhou Bin originally thought that he and Wang Zhikang's three daughters would be able to tide over the difficulties by sharing the expenses and taking turns to take care of their mother, but he didn't expect it to be this situation, so he decided to take care of his mother alone.
So why didn't Zhou Wenyu go home with Zhou Bin? It turned out that since living with Wang Zhikang at the age of 35, Zhou Wenyu has not contacted Zhou Bin and has not given him a penny.
After his father died of illness at the age of 15, Zhou Bin took care of himself until he got married and had children. Zhou Wenyu felt that she was sorry for Zhou Bin, so she didn't have the face to beg her son.
Now it seems that Wang Zhikang's three daughters forced Zhou Wenyu and Wang Zhikang to break up.
In their opinion, although Zhou Wenyu can be discharged from the hospital, the follow-up care of cerebral thrombosis is very troublesome and not only very costlyMoney, and also veryDrain energy
My father is 85 years old, and it may be very difficult to take care of three people, how can I take care of one more person?They said that since Zhou Wenyu gave birth to Zhou Bin, then Zhou Bin should raise his parents. What is angry is that Wang Zhikang can't persuade his three daughters, and he can't come up with money to support Zhou Wenyu, but he doesn't want Zhou Wenyu to follow Zhou Bin.
Later, the village committee intervened to coordinate the relationship between the parties, but no one could convince anyoneThe neighbors all said that they raised three white-eyed wolves, which really has no conscience.
So what should be done about this?Regardless of whether Wang Zhikang and Zhou Wenyu have registered their marriage or not, emotionally speaking, they have raised three daughters after all, and the three daughters should be grateful to the newspaper, even if they do not support Zhou Wenyu and Wang Zhikang to live together again, they should provide a part of the expenses appropriately.
The eldest daughter bought a house for the old couple and provided living expenses, but this was not enough to repay the 40 years of parenting.
Even if the eldest daughter's contribution can repay Zhou Wenyu's nurturing grace, then the second daughter and the third daughter should not stay out of the matter, they did not repay Zhou Wenyu's nurturing grace.
This matter should not be involved in Zhou Bin's obligations.
In the real society, there are many people who remarry for various reasons, and when they remarry, the most troublesome thing is to deal with the relationship with their children.
In many cases, it is difficult for remarried parents to get along with each other's children, especially when it comes to inheritance.
Fortunately, the newly promulgated Civil Code has sorted out various situations, has clear provisions, and reduced many disputes.
Sometimes, if you find this kind of thing difficult, you can read the Civil Code more often, and you may be able to find a good solution.