Between male and female colleagues
In the workplace, interpersonal relationships are very important, and how to manage the relationship with work partners of different genders is particularly important.
At work, we often have to communicate and collaborate with colleagues, but some seemingly innocuous things can also have a profound impact on interpersonal relationships.
Colleagues often meet, if they are often together and have to share too many personal things, it is easy to change the relationship between the two, and no one can control themselves at that time, which will be embarrassing.
However, if it's just an ordinary colleague, it can't be too much, otherwise it will cause endless trouble.
The workplace is like a huge "Shura field", and if you are not careful, you will get into great trouble.
Remember: among male and female colleagues, the following are usually unusual.
Emotional issues
First of all, you don't have a good time talking about your private emotions with your colleagues of the opposite sex.
When you build good relationships with colleagues around you at work, you should be cautious about talking about your relationship issues, especially with your colleagues of the opposite sex.
Huaining and his boyfriend often quarreled, his boyfriend was younger than Huaining, and often asked him for help, after a long time, Huaining had a fire in his heart.
At first, she said it alone, but gradually, she would also let her male colleagues offer her own suggestions and comfort.
This situation lasted for a long time, and the male colleague had the illusion that Huaining had a good impression of him and wanted to fall in love with him.
But this male colleague is also a very reasonable person, the reason why he said this is completely out of sympathy, not because of anything else, when he realized this, he began to keep his distance from Huaining, not wanting to help her anymore.
When people encounter setbacks in life, they often look for near-term solace, and the company is undoubtedly an excellent place to go and the best person to talk to.
However, such intimate communication can easily make people misunderstand that you are interested in him, which will cause misunderstandings, be awkward at work, and even affect the feelings between colleagues.
Personal Privacy
Another thing you can't just tell someone about is the details of your family life, your health problems or your financial situation.
Sharing such information with colleagues of the opposite sex has the potential to break boundaries in the field of work and cause some unnecessary embarrassment and conflict.
Zhang Zhizhi is such a woman without boundaries, especially when it comes to complaining to her colleagues, talking about the privacy between their husband and wife, talking about family financial constraints, etc.
Because Zhang Zhizhi is a nosy person, there are few women around her who can talk to her, and most of the problems, she complains to her male colleagues.
Originally, she hoped that someone could scold her husband for her, but the man misunderstood and thought that Zhang Zhizhi was dissatisfied with her married life, so she had an affair with her.
Subject to this stab|excited, the male colleague turned from dark to light, and wanted to have a bad relationship with Zhang Zhizhi, Zhang Zhizhi learned the truth and was so frightened that he hurriedly resigned.
Personal privacy is a very private thing, and if you say what you think, others may not understand, especially between men and women, there will be some misunderstandings.
If you tell people something intimate or private too much, then they will misunderstand that you are seducing them, which may change your feelings or even cross the line.
Share your lunch
Most office workers bring their own lunch, which is a private matter, but if the lunch is given to the opposite sex, it will give people a sense of ambiguity.
Xiao Zhi is a typical "otaku girl", he usually works, exercises, and the rest of the time is studying recipes, and Xiao Zhi's lunch in the company is basically cooked by him himself.
Therefore, the female colleagues around her like to eat the dishes made by Xiaozhi.
Xiaozhi is also very generous, and he has to make one more every day and give it to this female colleague, but over time, she misunderstood.
She felt that Xiao Zhi was a little interesting to herself, so she frequently offered her courtesy, and she was even absent-minded about her work, and talked to Xiao Zhi all day long, making the people around her misunderstand that they were dating, and Xiao Zhi was also troubled a lot.
No matter how good the relationship between male and female colleagues is, it is also at work, if you often eat lunch together, it is inevitable that there will be some intimate conflicts, in such an atmosphere, it is easy for sensitive people to have a sense of wishful thinking, do not want to work anymore, just want to fall in love with you.
It is necessary to have a good relationship with female colleagues, but it is also necessary to grasp the balance, and the slightest mistake will make the relationship cross the line, make both people very embarrassed, and also have a great impact on the work.
Remember, don't share your emotional problems, personal privacy, lunch, etc. with colleagues of the opposite sex, because this is a personal matter and an emotion, and if you talk too much, it will make the other half feel wrong and make your friendship difficult.
Therefore, there are some words that can only be kept in one's heart, and cannot be told to anyone, nor can they be told to any man.