The drama "Ice Hunting" is very peculiar, because of Yao Anna, it has been controversial since it was broadcast, and it is not a one-to-one excellent production from the perspective of many details, but many audiences, including me, watched it, and they all saw the fun and feelings. For example, those rough young people: watch Ah Sheng, who is physically clear, use his tongue to extinguish smoke:
Seeing that the cute and young Ah Long shouted "I'm useless" and threw his sweetheart Bingbing into the river, and then gobbled up the ...... like a human beingYou're a quick kid! 
For example, the eldest brother and the women who are thrown around like clothes: the first one has to be Bingbing, who hangs up early, when the immortal jumps, she is the elite soldier who takes the lead, and when the yacht escapes, she becomes an "overweight superfluous molecule"; 
The second is Ah Sheng's sister-in-law, who is also Chen Jianchang's wife, like a beautiful waste, floating around among men who "do big things", serving tea and pouring water when they can use it, and lying down when they don't need it, sensible and decadent; 
and "technology master" Huang Zongwei's genuine wife Alain, married a husband who died in the world, but also gave birth to triplets, when her husband waved his hand and said that he was going to do a big career, she was forced to start a widowed parenting life journey, hard work and trembling. As the lace in the men's game, they have no qualifications to be tough, and they can only "have ups and downs in life, miserable and miserable". 
However, what worries me the most is not the above three, but Ami, who almost became Huang Zongwei's second wife. Ami's first appearance was in the wonton shop, whether it was facing a customer who was trying to evade the order + rubbing oil, or Huang Zongwei who was uneven on the road, she was neither humble nor arrogant, quite a bit of gangsterism, she didn't look like a waiter, but more like a boss lady who was in charge. But in fact, her weakness is very obvious, that is, if she stays in the gutter for a long time, once someone treats her well, she can't help but be grateful to Dade and Yongquan to reciprocate. 
Huang Zongwei relieved her, gave her a tip, and acted as if he was interesting to her, and then turned around and went out to meet the police chasing Huang Zongwei, she was able to say "I haven't seen this person" very "righteously", and she didn't care about what price would be paid for harboring criminals. Later, Huang Zongwei called her from her rural hometown to live in a villa in Guangxi, and she also went very slowly, thinking that this very capable man wanted to take her to the end of the world to live a good life. First, it is impossible for one's life to be worse, and it is better to have an opportunity to improve than to sit idly by; Second, the only person in the world who is good to her has issued a call, how can she be indifferent? 
But the truth is very cruel, Huang Zongwei is a drug dealer, follow him, only jump into the fire pit, there will be no bright future, and people are looking for her, not entirely for the love of men and women, but because she will be a loyal and capable leader, easy to use, obedient, and smarter than Ah Long. Although Huang Zongwei's beautiful blueprint was destroyed before it could be launched, Huang Zongwei did not forget to maximize the use of Ami's chess piece when he was on the run. As a result, she stayed, was arrested by the police, and then lied again, making the police mistakenly believe that the escaped drug lord was dead. And until this time, Ami, who was about to be imprisoned for a short time for Huang Zongwei, did not know that the best person in the world for her was already a family person. 
To sum up, it is very embarrassing to look at it like this, Ami is delivering sincerity throughout the whole process, and Huang Zongwei is just playing with people's hearts with ease, so that he can use it for his own use. As a bystander, it is not difficult for us to understand Ami, who was born in poverty and had no hope in life, and when love, money, and hope were extremely scarce, a piece of sugar was enough to warm her heart. However, be sure to avoid becoming Aramco as much as possible. Her biggest cognitive mistake is that she uses other people's eyes to confirm her self-worth, that is, he is so good to me, he must be a god. But the opposite is true, because you first have certain qualities in order to be unique in the eyes of others at some point. It's the very vulgar chicken soup: If you bloom, butterflies will come. You bloom first to attract butterflies. If not, it is easy to give up the power to judge oneself and control the future to the "great good man", unconsciously plan his actions with his will, and control his emotions with his likes and dislikes, the consequences of this are very serious, at least, it may block more opportunities for himself (the world knows how to appreciate your eyes and not only that pair), and at worst, it may break through the bottom line for it and fall into madness. 
What is Love Brain? It is the extreme humility of "me", so humble that I am willing to become a shadow under the radiance of others, not afraid of "he is big and I am small", I am afraid that one day I will be abandoned, and I don't even have to do this shadow. is like Ami later, after being released from prison, she tried to kidnap the triplets to force Huang Zongwei to show up, so as to ask him for an explanation, but in the end he died tragically at the hands of drug dealers before the goal was achieved. This is typical - "When what she thought was the savior became the perpetrator, worship turned into hatred and revenge." In fact, the savior will inevitably become the perpetrator, because the previous golden body was molded by you, and the tall and perfect image was sketched by you, and all these beautiful illusions will eventually be punctured by reality, and when his ordinary, calculating, and embarrassed all appear, you will inevitably be disappointed, and even feel deceived, and then pull the savior off the altar and tie him to the cross to be tortured and punished. Not to mention a big villain like Huang Zongwei, even if the other party is not so heinous and ill-intentioned, but just an ordinary person who is kind to Ah Meimei, with Ami's mentality, he will turn from love to hate, and make a relationship that may develop benignly incompatible. Because under the long-term scarcity, she longs for miracles, then it is difficult for her to attach an almost objective explanation to the kindness of people, but will infinitely beautify and entrust her with important tasks, so that her emotional relationship will only have two results: either the other party will be overwhelmed and run away, leaving her to cry in disappointment; Or, smell the smell, dress up, and cheat money and labor in the name of dreaming. She can't recruit Huang Zongwei, and she has to recruit a pig killing plate. 
Therefore, the fate of the future has long been written in the character, or in the childhood encounters. When Ami said to Alain, "You are the second person in the world who is good to me", I really couldn't help but ask, didn't her parents give her more tenderness than giving her a bowl of instant noodles with their own hands?
I thought of a recent hot stalk - "raise yourself again", how to raise it specifically? It's definitely not about eating and drinking and wearing famous brands, but seeing those desires and sourness buried deep in my heart, such as the desire to be stuffed with a ten-yuan bill by my father and say "just go to the flower", and the sourness of seeing others wearing flower dresses but not myself, and then touching the wronged child, and then trying to satisfy myself. At the same time, you should continue to collect the kindness around you, gradually cover the initial picture of your relationship, and gradually believe that "I am worth it". Notice that I'm worthy, not "He must be God." Raising oneself is a process of gradually strengthening one's spirit, rather than a process of puffing up others, after all, no one is a mortal in the flesh, and no one can become a hero who comes to save you with colorful auspicious clouds. One day, when there is less self-pity and a higher sense of self-worth, the bull ghost and snake god similar to Huang Zongwei will automatically retreat, because he knows that you are not looking forward to a superman coming, you are your ultimate guard.