part.01
The fact that the movie "Hot and Hot" can resonate so much shows that many of the plots in the film poke at the hearts of our ordinary people.
First of all, Du Leying's first 32 years were a failure in life and a parasite disliked by his family.
What is the reason why she has been lying at home for more than ten years since graduation?
After watching the film, I realized that it was her personality problem.
On Doudou's TV show, the host asked, "Why don't you keep going out to look for a job?" ”
Du Leying replied: "I feel good to everyone, but I am always hurt, and then I don't like to talk more and more." ”
Why does Du Leying always get hurt?
Because she is a person who does not know how to reject others, she has been catering to others without principle, which is what everyone calls a "bad good person".
part.02
At the beginning of the film, Du Leying's mother, sister and cousin gathered in front of the surveillance to watch Du Leying lying on the sofa and falling asleep.
They looked at the strange animals in the zoo, looking at her fat body and talking about it.
Cousin Doudou asked suspiciously, can she sleep at night if she sleeps at this point?
Le Ying's sister Le Dan replied with a disgusted face: "She is so powerful that she is here, don't delay." ”
Subsequently, Du Leying's mother began to smile and ask Doudou to pay more attention to Du Leying's work.
Le Ying's cousin Doudou came to Le Ying's house to record an interview under the banner of finding a job for her cousin, although Le Ying was unwilling to record the show at all and was unwilling to expose her unbearable side, but she couldn't resist the persuasion of her mother and sister, so she reluctantly sat down and accepted the interview, and it turned out that it was this interview that was maliciously edited by her cousin.
Du Leying's best friend, her boyfriend who has been talking to her for a long time, the two have long been together, and her best friend is also pregnant with a child, but she has been hiding it from Du Leying.
The best friends who grew up together knew that Du Leying would be sad, but they still greened her behind her back, and what is even more ironic is that the best friend apologized and even proposed to let her be a bridesmaid when she got married, on the grounds that if Du Leying didn't come, she would be confirmed as a junior.
Du Leying felt uncomfortable and wanted to scold her mother, but she still went to be a bridesmaid at her best friend's wedding with her ex-boyfriend.
part.03
Du Leying's sister divorced and lived in her mother's house with a baby, because she cheated in marriage, she didn't get anything when she divorced, and her daughter wanted to go to school but couldn't get a household registration, so she got the idea of a house left by her grandfather to her sister, and wanted Du Leying to transfer the house to her.
When Du Leying heard that it was for her niece to go to school, she agreed without thinking about it.
As a result, it was because of a sentence: The man is not wrong, it was his sister who cheated in marriage first. My sister quarreled with her and justifiably kidnapped her: "Bamboo goes to school, can't you be a big aunt and bleed?" ”
In the end, Du Leying signed the power of attorney for transfer, and was beaten by her sister.
Later, Du Leying met fitness coach Hao Kun.
In order to let her apply for a card, Haokun asked her to go for a walk in the park for the first time, and sent a WeChat message to ask her if she had time.
She said yes. Haokun asked her if she likes to eat bullfrogs?
She opened her mouth to say "I don't like it", but in the end she said she liked it.
Haokun was drunk and wanted to sleep with her, so he asked her if it was the first time?
She lied and said no.
She didn't want to be on Doudou's show, but after seeing Doudou enthusiastically picking her up from the police station in the rain, she agreed again.
When she was on the show, her ** was maliciously edited by Doudou, and she was accused by the audience, she was angry, but when Doudou asked her to pretend to be dizzy, she still did it.
part.04
Du Leying's 32 years of life has actually been catering to others, without self-sacrifice and sacrifice, which led to the betrayal of her best friend and boyfriend, her sister's righteousness, her cousin's use and Haokun's use of her as a spare tire.
If you blindly cater to others and don't know how to reject others, then others will feel that they should use you, and you must respond to your needs, so they will ignore your feelings, do not take you seriously, and will wantonly hurt you.
To deal with the moral kidnapping of others, you must learn to say "no" and be brave enough to say what you think.
I am very glad that Du Leying finally found herself and finally bravely said no.
Later, after Le Ying** succeeded, she asked her father if you had two apples, one big and one small, and your friend asked you for it, which one would you give?
My father said that my friend wanted it, and that would be for the big one.
And Le Ying said that she used to give both, because her friends felt that she didn't like to eat apples at all.
And now, depending on the mood.
After she finished the game, Haokun asked her to eat bullfrogs, and she finally said "I don't like to eat bullfrogs", and Haokun said: "Then eat something else".
She said another day.
Haokun asked again which day is appropriate?
She said it depends on the mood.
Du Leying finally bravely spoke her heart, and finally found her own direction and lived her life.
I also hope that everyone can listen carefully to their inner voice, live their own life, and say "no" loudly in the face of the moral kidnapping of others.