When the results of the preliminary examination for the postgraduate entrance examination were announced, several families were happy and some were sad, and the candidates who did not go ashore were of course unhappy, and the candidates with high test scores also had the experience of "happiness and sadness".
There is a man in his 40s in Zhengzhou, his son graduated from Zhengzhou University this year, and he scored 400 points in the graduate school entrance examination!
400 points is quite wow, the supranational line is nailed, and being admitted to 211 or even 985 universities is basically a foregone conclusion, and the whole family is happy, especially Dad, who has to report the good news first, if you can get a congratulatory word from the other party, it is simply a joy.
Dad couldn't hide the excitement in his heart, and made up a message: said that his son is not talented, he scored 400 points in the graduate school entrance examination, and he will definitely be able to go ashore, hoping to be admitted to a 985 university, and share the happy events with the old and young masters!
Then, my father sent this message to the family group.
They are a big family, some in Zhengzhou, some in the countryside, are not out of the five clothes of the serious family, built a group, there are 28 members of their own family in the group, usually who has a happy event, need to take money to make up for it, no one can run away, are not outsiders!
But this time it's strange, after the father sent his son's graduate school entrance examination results to the group, the stone sank into the sea, no one squeaked, not even an expression, Dad's heart was cool and cold!
Dad was unwilling, so he sent a big red envelope.
The red envelope was scattered in **, and it was all snatched up in less than 2 minutes, but no one said thank you, let alone congratulations.
Dad continued to wait, but no one squeaked after waiting for a day, he was angry, who are these members of his own family, he didn't even give a word of blessing, what else do I mean in this group? So, he decisively quit the family group and blocked all the contacts in the address book!
This is still a family group, they are all their own family, what will outsiders think? These people are so indifferent that people are terrifying, in a word, they can't see others!
This is nothing, what is even more ruthless is that it is okay not to congratulate, and secretly report, wanting to pull the children who finally went ashore to the water again.
In my hometown of a county in southwest Henan, there is a girl named Liu Xiao, who scored 389 points in the preliminary examination for graduate school this year, and she applied for Henan University, and there is no doubt that she went ashore.
Liu Xiao's mother was happy, her mother usually likes to post Douyin, so she made a Douyin, compiled her daughter's report card into it, and then released it with **"Today is a Good Day".
Douyin is very delicate and festive, attracting many likes and congratulations from netizens, but none of them are liked in the circle of relatives and families.
A few days later, Liu Xiao suddenly received a ** from Henan University, saying that someone reported her for cheating in the graduate school entrance examination, saying that she had found a teacher in the school to help guess the questions before the graduate school entrance examination, but the questions drawn by the teacher were all bet on, so Liu Xiao got a high score.
Of course, Liu Xiao said that there is no such thing, and it is normal to find a teacher for tutoring, and it is impossible for a teacher to know the topic of the postgraduate examination.
The school said that it would investigate this matter, and hoped that what was reported was not the truth, and suggested that Liu Xiao's mother delete the Douyin of "Today is a Good Day", which may be envied, jealous and hated.
Later, I learned that it was my aunt who reported Liu Xiao's exam fraud. After seeing the Douyin posted by Liu Xiao's mother, she thought that Liu Xiao's mother had told people that her daughter had asked a teacher for guidance on the eve of the exam, and she guessed several questions, so she wrote a letter to report Liu Xiao's fraud.
The child went ashore for graduate school, and the family didn't say words of blessing, and they were still envious, jealous and hateful, and the hatred came up to write a report letter in an unwarranted name, with the intention of "Today is a good day", just not to make you happy!
It seems that the idioms invented by the ancients "get carried away" and "happiness gives birth to sorrow" are really like this.
An old classmate of mine, his son graduated from Zhengzhou University this year and was admitted to Wuhan University as a doctoral student, majoring in artificial intelligence.
The old classmates were also very happy, so they posted the matter to the classmates group. There are 50 old classmates in the group, only two congratulate them, and the others pretend not to see it, the most unpredictable thing in the world is the human heart!
It's a good thing to be admitted to graduate school, a happy event, but as a parent, don't be in the group, you are happy, others may be unhappy, some people just can't see others better than him, this is human nature, so it's just happy and happy behind closed doors, don't cause a stomach of unhappiness.
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