Ms. Sun, nearly 50 years old, is a psychological counselor, with a fair and plump face, straight black hair scattered around her waist, showing mature charm, looking young and lively, with a tall figure and a unique temperament. He used to be the secretary to the general manager of a private company and had a daughter with his ex-husband. However, the marriage broke down, the ex-husband liked the new and hated the old, and eventually divorced and received a huge amount of compensation.
After the divorce, she and her daughter depended on each other and no longer believed in love. She aspires to become an independent and self-reliant woman, and through self-study, she obtained the national ** psychological counselor certification and became a psychological counselor. Her work is easy and free, consulting customers through her mobile phone**, which is highly praised, and her monthly salary is as high as 15,000 yuan, which is more than many white-collar workers.
After years of struggle, she has lived a rich and comfortable life, owning a big house in Changchun and a Lexus car, and her daughter's college tuition has been settled. She is freelance, has a high income and lives easily, has a 5-month vacation in the south every year, likes to shop famous brands, regards money as her life, and piles up expensive items at home.
After her daughter went to college, Ms. Sun's burden was much lighter. But she felt lonely late at night, so she signed up for a blind date show, hoping to find a good man who was humorous and good at communication to start a family, and the other party's economic conditions were not important, as long as the character was good.
After the matchmaker learned about her situation, she quickly introduced 57-year-old Mr. Zhang, who is honest and steady, capable and reliable.
The man, Zhang, is 57 years old and works as a car mechanic at a large state-owned enterprise in Changchun. Once, he had a small family, but because his wife was unemployed more than ten years ago and forced to work in the south, the two were separated for a long time and gradually estranged. While working as his wife in Shenzhen, she established a new relationship with another person, which eventually led to a divorce. He now lives in a small 50-square-meter house allocated by his unit, and only receives a salary of 2,500 yuan a month because of the poor performance of state-owned enterprises.
Although the salary of state-owned enterprises is limited, the benefits package is relatively good. The unit pays the highest level of pension for each employee, and it is expected that Lao Zhang's retirement pension in the future can reach more than 7,000 yuan. In addition, each employee is entitled to a small garage and a family car provided free of charge by the unit. Lao Zhang's favorite thing to do after work every day is to repair the white SUV in the garage downstairs of his dormitory. Although it is just a cheap scooter, these benefits make Zhang feel proud in front of relatives and friends.
Now, Zhang has a house and a car, and in another three years, he will usher in a more comfortable retirement. However, whenever he thinks that he is still alone, his feelings and family are blank, he always feels an indescribable loneliness and loneliness in the dead of night. For the sake of his future life, he longs to find a young, beautiful, temperamental and educated woman who can support each other and build a small family together.
To this end, Zhang consulted the matchmaker Xiao Na, hoping to find a suitable partner. He hoped that this woman would be young, beautiful, temperamental, and cultured, and that she would be able to spend a happy old age with him. After careful screening, the matchmaker Xiao Na arranged Sister Sun for Zhang, and the two chose to go on a blind date in Zhang's 50-square-meter apartment. When they first met, they were both very enthusiastic and shook hands.
Zhang was deeply impressed by Sister Sun's beauty and gentleness, and was attracted to her at first sight. He felt that Sister Sun was both gentle and feminine, not like a person over fifty, but more like a young lady in her early thirties, which made Zhang feel very happy. In contrast, Sister Sun has a decent impression of Zhang, thinking that he is an honest person. Maybe it's because she has met too many men, and she feels that Zhang is not the type of person who falls in love at first sight.
Under the matchmaking of the matchmaker Xiao Na, Sister Sun and Zhang sat together and began a more in-depth exchange. After learning that Zhang was engaged in maintenance work, Sister Sun asked him about his education level, and Zhang admitted that he only had a high level of Chinese. Sister Sun's expression was slightly strange, because she is currently a bachelor's degree, and there is a big cultural gap with Zhang. Zhang explained that although he only has high Chinese, he loves reading over the years and has reached a college level through self-study.
Sister Sun then asked Zhang about his monthly salary, and Zhang replied after thinking for a while: "I now receive 2,500 yuan a month." Hearing this number, Sister Sun opened her mouth and almost laughed: "2500 yuan? Lao Zhang, your life is indeed not easy. "I get 15,000 yuan a month, which is only enough for basic expenses. Seeing that Sister Sun was crushing Brother Zhang, Xiao Na, the matchmaker, hurriedly interjected, although Brother Zhang's salary is low, the unit benefits are good, there are RV subsidies, and the pension is more than 7,000!
Although Sister Sun has already understood, she doesn't value these. She said to Zhang on the spot, the Haval small SUV you drive is not the same grade as my Lexus ES200. I spent a few thousand a month in Sanya last year, is your salary enough? Zhang wanted to behave well, but he was hit by these words, so he could only bow his head and admit that he and Sister Sun really did not match.
There was no practical point in talking, and Sister Sun hurriedly said goodbye. This blind date ended in failure. I think they are indeed not at the same level, but Sister Sun's attitude is impolite and not in line with her status. What do you think about this? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.