The marriage of children is a major life event that directly affects their future happiness. As parents, we can't take it lightly and must understand the situation of each other's family before marriage.
I have an old friend whose daughter didn't fully understand the other family's situation when she got married. As a result, it was only after marriage that it was discovered that the other party's family had financial problems, which led to the couple's constant quarrels over money and a very unhappy life.
Therefore, we need to keep our eyes open and understand that marriage is not just a matter for two people, but also involves the relationship between two families.
The relationship between the other parent's is crucial! This is related to the quality of life of children after marriage.
If the relationship between the parents of the other party is harmonious, then the family into which the children marry or marry will be warm and harmonious. In such a family atmosphere, they will learn how to get along and how to love.
However, if the relationship between the other parents is tense and there are conflicts all the time, then the children's married life may also be affected. After all, the family environment has a great impact on a person's growth.
The health of the other family's health is also something we must be concerned about. This is not to ask us to covet anything from the other family, but to think about the future of our children. If there is a serious genetic disease in the other family, it may have an impact on the health of the children.
At the same time, knowing the health status of the other person's family can also give us a general idea of the other person's living habits. If the other family is very health-conscious, then the children can also develop good living habits after marriage.
This is related to the happiness of our children's lives, and we, as parents, must pay more attention to it.
A person's social circle is often a reflection of his personality and way of doing things. If the other family's social relationship is complicated or has a bad relationship, it may have a negative impact on the life of the child.
In addition, knowing the social circle of the other family can also help the children better integrate into the other family. If there is a big difference in the social circles of the two parties, it may lead to problems in communication and getting along after marriage.
Therefore, before our children get married, we should try our best to understand the social relations of each other's families and ensure the happiness of our children.
The marriage of their children is an important event in their lives. As parents, we have to take care of them.
It may be a little difficult for us to learn about the other family's situation, but it is for the happiness of our children.
We want our children to find someone who is truly right for them and build a happy family.
Finally, marriage is not a spur-of-the-moment impulse, but a lifelong commitment. Let us use our sincerity and wisdom to escort the happiness of our children.