After graduating, Du Leying "ate and lived for nothing" at home for ten years. Many people think that no one around Du Leying cares about her. Calculated by family members, calculated by friends. But in fact, her parents should love her very much. Just imagine, she can stay at home for ten years, and if she is another parent, will she still have the same good temper as in the play?
From the mouths of Du Leying's parents, it can also be seen that her sister Le Dan has been helping in the store. Le Ying is not very familiar with how things are arranged in the store.
In the play, Le Dan's daughter wants to go to school, and Le Ying needs to transfer the house to Le Dan. Many people think that Le Dan is just calculating Le Ying's house. But the film does not have this tendency until the end, or is there any fragment that can prove it.
Le Dan speaks with a very poisonous mouth, almost without any mercy. But Le Ying was able to stay in such an environment for ten years, in addition to Le Ying's own blunt sensitivity and no temper, the attitude of her family is also very important. Le Ying's parents never said to Le Ying that she should move out.
At most, I hope she can find a job. Isn't this what it should be for Le Ying, who has become an adult, graduated from school, and stayed at home for ten years?
Le Ying's parents have always tacitly acquiesced that their daughter does not work at home, and perhaps her parents are more concerned about Le Ying's mental state and future life than the economy.
So Le Ying's family atmosphere is actually not bad.
Le Ying has a boyfriend and a best friend. Her boyfriend cheated on her best friend, and Le Ying was betrayed by both love and friendship. But Le Ying showed an almost calm calmness for betrayal, and felt that Le Ying didn't love her boyfriend very much, or that she cared about this feeling.
What Le Ying lacks is not love, nor friendship, but a kind of self-identity. After staying at home for ten years, she may not know what she wants and where her life is going.
Le Ying is not a people-pleasing personality, at least not to her family, her parents. The reason is very simple, that is, she was able to stay at home for ten years, and her parents did not speak ill of her. Le Ying's attitude towards her parents is not flattering. At most, lie flat.
When Le Ying passed by the gym for the first time, Haokun was boxing. Le Ying peeked at that time, but Le Ying was not looking at Haokun, but boxing. After all, Le Ying and Haokun didn't know each other at that time, and she had just been broken up.
Le Ying and Haokun got together by mistake. What Le Ying values is not Haokun, but dreams, people who can stick to their dreams. Le Ying herself has no perseverance and no goals, so she is especially envious of those who do things seriously and pursue their dreams seriously.
She secretly gave Zhu Tianfu 5,000 yuan to fight for Haokun and make nutritious meals for Haokun (although it was not successful), all because she had never seen someone with goals and dreams like Haokun.
But supporting other people's dreams often ends up with disappointment, after all, the most uncontrollable thing in this world is people. After Le Ying found out that Haokun had received 30,000 yuan, she once persuaded Haokun, but was insulted by Haokun.
That Le Ying's insistence on her dream was shattered again.
Love is not something that Le Ying pursues. Self, dreams are. That's why Le Ying will be reborn, instead of envying others, helping others, and realizing her dreams, it is better to find your own dreams.
She chose boxing, which can hit her current state of life hard and open a new chapter in her life. It doesn't matter if she loses the game in the end, at least she wins herself.
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