In the current metropolis, there is a group of women who are independent, intelligent, and attractive, but they have accidentally become the "leftover fighters" in marriage.
You said that these girls are not bad in all aspects, and they are not ugly, why do they give themselves "leftover"?
Moreover, the bigger the city, the more older the leftover women, it is said that the ratio of men to women in Shanghai's blind date market has reached an astonishing 1:9, and a man has 9 women in grabs.
Some people may be about to question, didn't it be said before that there are 30 million singles in the country? Why is the ratio of men to women now 1:9 again, but there are more boys and girls? Ladies and gentlemen, 30 million singles are talking about the national data, and the 1:9 here is talking about the proportion of successful men and women in the blind date market in big cities, which are two different things. The 1 here represents those successful men, in fact, we can simply understand, that is, now women's own conditions are too good, ordinary men can't look down on them, and there are only a few that can be seen, and naturally there will be 9 women grabbing a man.
I believe that all women hope that they can marry better, and it is best to marry the person who is a successful person, and it is best to be handsome, have a higher education, have a higher income, have a house and a car, be kind to their wives, and stand in the perspective of women, there is nothing wrong, right!
But everyone must know, how many such good men can there be in the country? How many cities are there? And those successful men who have already made a name for themselves in the metropolis, and men who are still single, how can he have a low vision of finding his other half.
You must know that in the metropolis, more than half of the men are just ordinary people, and if they fail to succeed, most of them will marry a wife and have children, and live a peaceful life. Women are different, even if they don't achieve anything in the metropolis, they still have dreams, dreams, dreams of one day marrying a good husband and fishing for a golden beetle son-in-law. With the dream of finding Ruyi Langjun, I look forward to one day being able to fly on the branches and become a phoenix.
Then the problem comes, you can't look down on a man who has no ability, and people can't look down on you if you have a man.
It is undeniable that women are getting better and better nowadays, and there are even many "strong women" who are stronger than men. However, it is precisely because they are too good that many men are afraid of them. Coupled with all kinds of "poisonous chicken soup" and idol dramas on the Internet now, plots like "the domineering president fell in love with me", romantic stories of Gao Fu Shuai and Bai Fumei are everywhere.
And now the big data push is more accurate, and women who have seen too much will naturally have too high "expectations" for love. It even made some women have a kind of blind self-confidence, knowing that their monthly salary is only 3,000, but they require men to have a monthly salary of 30,000. is only 1.5 meters, but he has to find a boyfriend who is 1.8 meters. Knowing that his pocket is empty, he asks the man to deposit millions.
Of course, it is a good thing to have dreams and pursuits! No, no, no! But it is also necessary to distinguish between fantasy and reality, and not to be fooled by illusory expectations, but to miss out on real happiness.