Life is not a race, and there is no need to rush. While growth is important, maturity is also essential. Maturity is not a simple matter of age, but requires a kind of inner precipitation and accumulation of experience. Only by becoming mature can we better face the challenges and variables in life, and better understand our own value and direction. So, let's walk our life path steadfastly and strive to become a more mature, confident and wise person. Maturity is not an easy thing to do, and it often comes at a cost. Only after experiencing some bad things can you truly appreciate the value of life. On the way, there are always people who meet us, they may be friends or disappointed bad people. However, it is these experiences that make us resilient and learn to mature. Maturity is not simple, but as long as we experience it, we will become stronger. Maturity is a life barrier where there is no absolute standard. But it's easy to see the characteristics that immature people have. They may be self-righteous and unwilling to admit their mistakes; Or lack of responsibility and refuse to take responsibility for themselves. They may be extremely angry, unable to control their emotions, or insincere in their dealings with others, impatient and considerate. Maturity requires self-reflection, self-awareness, and growth, and it is only by persisting in such efforts that we can continue to move towards self-improvement, even if there are no definite and obvious standards. As far as I've found, immature people, these three characteristics are obvious, and hopefully you don't. 
1. We all want to be rewarded after putting in the effort and immediately wanting to be rewarded, but sometimes our efforts do not necessarily lead directly to the result. It's also part of life. However, immature people will eagerly expect to kill two birds with one stone and give back. However, we cannot deny that this is very unlikely. We need to mature to accept this fact and focus more on our own growth and progress. Only after continuous accumulation can we expect success and we can see results. It takes time and patience, don't be in a hurry, cherish the process, and believe that success will eventually favor you. In real life, we often encounter people who only think about returning, they only care about the immediate benefits and cannot give wholeheartedly, so they often fail to achieve the ideal of success. For those of us who strive for success, we should be mindful of the importance of the word "give". Only by truly dedicating oneself to one thing can you achieve success. We should keep chasing our dreams and be brave enough to put in the effort. Don't be discouraged, every effort on the road to success will bring us more growth and harvest. Let's move forward, work hard, and pursue our own achievements. Life requires continuous dedication and accumulation. Only through hard work and hard work can we get more rewards. Every bit of accumulation will become a future boost, leading us to the road to success. And, as long as you work hard to a certain extent, there will definitely be a miracle of your own. So, let's work hard together and turn every bit of accumulation into the power to realize our dreams. In the journey of life, we always think about the reward, and forget the hard work we have paid. But the truth is, as long as you work hard and do everything you can, everything you expect will be waiting for you on the way. In the end, success may be far away from you, but every minute and second you put in is not wasted, and they also make you more mature. So, don't give up, don't stagnate, continue to pursue your dreams, and use your efforts to create a better tomorrow. 
2. Not self-disciplined, unwilling to change yourself, negative, pessimistic, always complaining that life is not easy, we are very difficult, if we want to change all this, what we need to do is to maintain self-discipline, strive to change ourselves, make ourselves positive and optimistic, and face everything with a smile, which is the attitude that a mature person should have. A mature person should be self-disciplined and not overindulge himself. On the contrary, an immature person always lacks self-restraint, is always negative and pessimistic in the face of difficulties, and often complains about the unfairness of life. Such people always think that they have a necessary confrontation with fate and life, when in fact it is only because they do not have enough courage and wisdom to change themselves. Therefore, we must continue to learn, grow and improve in order to truly become a mature person. As human beings, we must understand that we ourselves are the root of everything. Our attitude plays a crucial role in our quality of life, our life trajectory. If you have a positive attitude, life will naturally be better and life will be smoother; On the other hand, if you have a negative attitude and complain, your life will be hindered everywhere and your life will become bumpy. When we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we should not be anxious and frustrated, but should broaden our horizons, face them with an open and inclusive mind, and learn from them to continue to grow. Let's face life positively and embrace the future with optimism. A person's attitude towards life and life can reflect his maturity. Mature people tend to be more self-disciplined and have a positive attitude, while immature people tend to be self-indulgent and complain about their surroundings and human feelings. Therefore, we should always remind ourselves to keep learning and growing, learn to face difficulties, have strong mental abilities, and face life's challenges with a positive attitude. In this way, we can become more mature and live more fully. 
3. Often swayed by emotions, easy to be impulsive, easy to get angry and angry, one of the signs of maturity is the ability to control emotions in front of emotions. When we can stabilize our emotions and not lose our temper easily, we can reflect a mature belief and bearing. In life, the changeable emotions make it difficult for us to control ourselves and are easily overwhelmed by life. But mature people can handle emotions better and maintain a calm mind. Therefore, controlling one's emotions is an important ability, which is indispensable and worthy of our constant pursuit at all times and places. As an adult, I think the first thing we need to learn is how to control our emotions. Because emotions are the devil, if they are not well controlled, they are easy to hurt others and themselves, leaving more regrets and regrets in their lives. Mood is a force that can affect our emotions, like the wind blowing and the passage of time. So we have to take good control of our hearts and keep it steady. Only in this way will we be able to deal with the things in life calmly. Because emotions are born from the heart, we need to always be vigilant about our mindset and extinguish those troubles and insecurities in the depths of our hearts. Only when we have a comfortable heart can our emotions remain stable and we can cope with the ups and downs of life calmly. Mature people know how to control their emotions and not let them dictate their behavior. Only immature people like to be vexatious and lose their temper. Once your emotions get out of control, you will become a slave to your emotions and behave irrationally, with unimaginable consequences. The control of emotions is a manifestation of human wisdom. Mature people are constantly adjusting and learning from themselves to make themselves more mature, more rational, and better. Let's learn to take control of our emotions and embrace a better future. 
Everyone should strive to grow and mature. Only by experiencing pain and setbacks can we become ripe and reap abundant fruits. Growth is a long road, which requires continuous learning, tempering, and growth. Although the process is very hard, only through such tempering can we become stronger and more powerful. Therefore, no matter what difficulties you encounter, there is no need to be afraid, you must persevere, and the fruits of success will be the sweetest. In order to pursue a better life, we must all put in the effort, slowly accumulate experience and wisdom, and do a good job of self-adjustment and self-discipline. We should face all challenges with positive optimism, maintain emotional stability at all times, and move towards our goals. Only then can we become truly worthy people in adulthood, with the ability to bring happiness to ourselves and others. Let's go hand in hand and work together to meet a better future. May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!