Everyone will have different feelings about life because of their different life experiences. Tell me why I want to retire early.
Most of the people around me advised me not to retire early, although judging from all the existing circumstances, I really had no reason to leave early: familiar with work, clean environment, harmonious leadership, harmonious colleagues, and understanding of my family. According to everyone's thinking, not only is there a lot of money to be lost, but the key is that retirement will be boring. But I don't think like anyone else.
First of all, I'm very open to this. After so many years of work, although I don't like it much, it is certainly not my favorite and most desirable thing. I think people always have to do something in their life that they really want to do or that they really enjoy. Although many people can do it on a regular basis, but due to the problem of time and energy, they will definitely not be able to devote themselves wholeheartedly, and the happiness enjoyed may also be somewhat discounted, not to mention that I am still a person who can't let go as long as I have a job: often a problem is always in my mind before it is completely solved, or I wake up in the middle of the night and remember what else to do tomorrow and I am very anxious, and I have no sleep all night.
Secondly, there are some things that I may not like so much, or I don't know much about them, but I especially want to try them, while I am still free, to experience a different life from the past, to learn some new things, maybe these were just thinking about it casually before, but now I can have time to try it. For example, I want to try reading books I like to read, learn to dance, learn pen drawing, play table tennis, raise some flowers, play games, and even watch children play scripts. Actually, it's not that I want to learn how well I can, I just want to try. If you like it, you can learn more and play more, and if you don't like it, you will give up if you don't adapt, and you don't force it. It's like learning to draw with a pen, which I never thought about before, because I was very bad at drawing since I was a child, but then an unintentional experience made me feel very interesting, a little like, I wanted to follow the painting, and I didn't want to use my brain, knowing that I was just happy and fun.
Travel to see the snow. Thirdly, of course, I want to go outside and see a different world when I still have enough physical strength. Although I usually take my children out to travel during the holidays, there are always too many people on holidays, and the weather is not chosen, and there is not enough time. Retirement is naturally much more convenient in all aspects.
In a way, I also want to learn from my parents. My mother had always wanted to wait for her father to retire and take her on a trip, but when my father retired, his legs and feet were not flexible enough, and it was inconvenient to go far away. On the other hand, as you get older, you tend to lose interest in many things and have a hard time adapting to new things.
Although it is true that you will lose a lot of money in early retirement, you can't have it both ways. I hope to work in the first half of my life and do what I want to do in the second half of my life. Money can live a normal life, and other leisure lives can be done within your means. As for children, unless there is a natural or man-made disaster, or a war, I don't believe that my children will not be able to live a normal life as ordinary people in the future, if they want a better life, they will work their own, don't just think about saving money for the next generation, even if we ordinary people don't eat or drink, we can't help our children a lot. On the contrary, I think that the best help for children is to live our own lives well, not to cause chaos for children in the future, so that children can study, work and live with peace of mind. The family is safe and sound, and happiness is happiness.
Everyone's living environment is different, as long as you find the right one for you, it is the best.