Many people think that a man wants to break up, which is a very quick thing, and they think that as long as he wants to break up, he will break up soon.
But in fact, this is not the case, men have a long process from the beginning of the idea of breaking up, to the real breakup, they do not want to break up and then break up immediately, but when the idea arises, it takes a long time to prepare.
They will not break up with you immediately, but slowly plan this matter, such as first snubbing you in some ways, so that you have an opinion about him, and then quarrel, and then have a conflict, and break up logically.
For example, first with you, then ride a donkey to find a horse, wait until you find a better one, then kick you away, and so on.
When a man wants to break up with a woman, his biggest performance must be disgust, and he begins to express his dislike for you in various places, dislike you here, dislike you there, make you unbearable in the end, and then take the initiative to break up.
When you find that a man starts to dislike you in the following ways, then you have to be careful, this is a sign that he wants to break up with you, don't take it lightly.
1. I dislike you for being too clingy.
Most girls are actually sticky objects, and they will be very eager to stay with their partners, hoping that each other will have an independent space for two people, and they can do a lot of things together.
You'll want to be with him after work, even if it's two people at home in a daze or playing games.
You'll want to go to the movies and go shopping with him on the weekend.
You'll want him to go for a walk in the park with you.
You're going to want to fill up his time.
In the past, he also liked to stick with you, liked the time with you, and felt very happy and happy with you, even if it was just in a daze, he felt happy.
However, he later began to dislike you for sticking to him, you always couldn't see him, and when you asked him what he was doing, he always said that he was busy, but he couldn't say what he was busy with.
So you have a conflict with him, quarrel with him, say that he doesn't accompany you, he dislikes you for being too clingy, disgusted that you don't have your own social circle, and starts to ask you to go out and play with your friends.
Don't hesitate, he just doesn't want to spend time with you, he doesn't want to be with you anymore, he finds you annoying and can't wait to get rid of you.
Second, I dislike you for spending money lavishly.
When a man begins to dislike women for spending more money and dislike women for spending money lavishly, it basically means that he no longer wants to spend money for women, and men are unwilling to spend money for women, which is proof that he doesn't love.
You want to eat Haidilao, he said Haidilao is too expensive, and then takes you to eat the skewer hot pot on the side of the road, saying that it is all the same, delicious and cheap.
You want to buy a slightly more expensive bag, and he says you're vain, and you can't eat those things.
If you want to buy something, he will talk about you, disgusted that you spend too much money.
But he wasn't like this before, he never disliked you spending money, he would satisfy you whatever you wanted, he wouldn't think you were spending money badly, and he wouldn't think you were wasting money.
But now I start to dislike it, I think you spent too much money on unnecessary things, I start to blame you, and then I complain to you about how difficult it is to make money.
In fact, it's just that he doesn't want to spend money on you, because he already wants to get rid of you, doesn't want to waste money on you, and doesn't want to increase his sunk costs.
3. Dislike you as not as good as other women.
When he starts comparing you with other women, comparing your profession to others, comparing you to making less money than others, comparing you to being less gentle than others, comparing you to being less than others to dress up, these are all signs that he no longer loves you.
If he really cares so much about these things about you, he won't choose you in the first place, and now he starts to dislike it, either because he has another woman, and then he has to compare, or he doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Men only compare a woman to other women when they don't like her.
If you think about it, in the beginning, will he compare you to others? I believe the answer is no, at that time he only sees your strengths in his eyes, and will not see your shortcomings.
Men are starting to dislike you, they just don't want to be with you anymore.
The most obvious manifestation of a man not liking a woman and no longer loving a woman is disgust.
He never disliked your points before, but now he starts to dislike them, and some of them are even inconsequential, which are places that don't have a big impact at all.
Because he doesn't want to be with you anymore, what was once a problem is now a problem.
Don't make excuses for him, you must recognize the fact that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, and don't find reasons in yourself and blame yourself, because it's not your fault, it's him who is wrong, it's just that he doesn't love you anymore, and you shouldn't take any responsibility.
What you have to do is to plan your future from now on, if you still want to be with him, then you can work hard, if the result is not good after hard work, don't force it anymore, the man who barely stays, he will not love you.
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