Mother's circle During the Chinese New Year, I visited relatives and friends, watched my relatives grow old one by one, and watched families run around for survival, I understood one thing, the times are different, raising children can not prevent aging, it is good to be able to do it without getting old.
And this kind of family is also divided into two kinds, one is advanced anti-aging, which is very rare. The younger generation has a successful career and can completely not rely on their parents, but can also provide their parents with favorable pension conditions, and can also lead their parents to achieve class leaps. I have to say that the disadvantage of this type of family is that I am busy with work and cannot always be with my parents.
But in fact, most young people are not always with their parents. One is ordinary anti-aging. It is that the original family is relatively weak, and the children do not have much achievement, but they can be self-reliant, and they can also take care of their parents, so that their parents can maintain their previous life or even better in their old age. This kind of is also very good, at least the child is completely on his own.
Without the help of their parents, not many young people can buy a house or a car entirely on their own. After the parents subsidized these big heads, they usually had to subsidize their living expenses from time to time, so that they could live their lives. Of course, this kind of is also good, and it can be regarded as a sensible young man. After the parents subsidize the big head, the future life will be better, and there is also a hope.
In addition to fully subsidizing the big money of buying a house and a car, parents also have to subsidize the big part of their daily life. The child does not have the ability to survive independently and is completely dependent on his parents for survival.
Of course, the parents of this kind of family generally have better conditions and have the ability to let their children be gnawed by the elderly. The expectation of such parents for their children is to get married and have children, and they have the ability to raise them anyway.
The fourth type is the pit old type, which is also a minority, but the most bitter family. Raising children not only does not prevent old age, but pits old age.
Raise children who either don't have a job or don't work well; Or the marriage is not going well, or for various reasons not married. I have always had to rely on blood transfusions from my parents to survive.
The old people of this kind of pit old family generally have old faces and do not have many smiles, and the bottomless pit life has crushed their confidence.