Foreword (What do you think is filial piety?) I believe that everyone has their own definition, but when we really do it, it may be very different from the filial piety in our minds, the protagonist of today's true story, some people say that he is a scumbag, some people say that he is a filial son, what kind of person he is, let's judge together. I'm Ding Si, and I'll take you to read the story of the world together).
Two days ago, a single man in the village died and was hastily buried. This person is not only a bachelor, but also loves to drink, love to gamble, once gambled his father chopped off 2 fingers on him, he later became addicted to gambling and made his father angry to death. But some people in the village say that he is a filial son, and some people say that he is not filial at all, which is strange, a person is two completely different sides in the mouths of different people.
Filial piety is the fourth, and the above three brothers are called filial piety, filial piety, and filial piety. When he was twenty-three years old, his three brothers became a family and went out of the house. He lives with his parents, and his family is an ordinary family in the countryside. I don't know when, Xiaode loves to play cards, at first it was entertainment, and then it got bigger and bigger. Once he took half of the family's food hoarding away and sold it as gambling money, his father fell ill when he found out. By the time he returned, it was already a week later, and he had lost all his money. I went home to find some more money to gamble.
angry with a broom for a good beating, Xiaode didn't run, didn't shout, knelt and let his mother beat, his mother was tired of beating him and looked up and said: "Have you fought enough, if you get angry, get me some more money, and I'll go and win back what I lost." "There's no good way to deal with this kind of guy who has no skin and no face, and there's nothing a woman can do.
A person with gambling addiction is terrifying, and in his world only gambling brings happiness, money is not important, and he is not important, only the feeling of winning that moment is important. When Xiaode wins, his eyes are prominent, and his face is flushed, which is more exciting than having a cave room with his daughter-in-law, of course, he has not had a daughter-in-law, this is what he imagined. After a moment, there was emptiness again, and he wanted to win again, and the thrill of winning money again. But when you lose, people will fall into obsession, like falling into a quagmire that can't pull out, all people with general gambling addiction are people who lose more than they win.
Repeated gambling made the family even worse, and once he had a fight with his father, who took a kitchen knife and said, "If you gamble again, I'll chop off your hand." ”
Xiaode directly spread his hand and slapped it on the table, saying, "You have the ability to chop." His eyes were fixed on his father.
He only heard the sound of chopping meat, and Hyo-deok trembled a little, he felt his fingers hot, and he turned his head to look at his hand on the table. With a scream, he felt pain at this time.
Hyodeok's ring and little fingers were chopped off. Xiaode didn't expect that his gambling habit had made his father have no hope for him, and his father felt that he had to be taught a deep enough lesson that he would have a chance to turn back.
In previous years, the medical technology was not as good as it is now, and it was no longer possible to take your fingers to the hospital. Xiaode lay at home for 2 weeks and never went out to gamble again, and his father cried in the middle of the night and said to Xiaode's mother: "I am also distressed, but if I am not ruthless, this person will not be saved." ”
Xiaode's father's ruthlessness saved Xiaode for 2 months. Xiaode was addicted again, went out and gambled again, and when he lost money, he came back to his father and said, "You don't want to chop off my two fingers again, and a bag of wheat on one finger, and tell me to win back the money I lost." ”
Xiaode's father trembled when he heard this, his eyes stared at Xiaode, his mouth opened slightly, his face became more and more red, red to purple, saliva flowed out of his mouth and fell straight to the clothes on his chest, and then a mouthful of blood sprayed on Xiaode's face, and he lay on his back on the ground. Xiaode's mother panicked and shouted: "Shopkeeper, what's wrong with you." Xiaode came to his senses at this time, and hurriedly went out to call him a few brothers. When the brothers arrived, his father's eyes opened, and he only called Xiaode to come to him, raised his hand and scratched Xiaode's face, and said weakly: Xiaode, don't gamble.
Xiaode's father died, and the three brothers Xiaozhong, Xiaoyi, and Xiaoxin held a meeting for a long time to decide who would come out to handle the funeral, arguing endlessly in the courtyard. Hyo-deok and his mom scrub and dress his dad in the room. It was almost dark, and the three brothers were still arguing outside. In the end, the third filial piety with slightly better conditions paid a large amount of funeral expenses, the eldest filial piety and the second filial piety took out their father's coffin money, and the rest of the hospitality seats, hit the yin house, the mourning hall, and the third type of money went out. However, his condition is that in the future, when he gets old and sick, he doesn't care about the expenses of ** fees.
Three days later, Xiaode's father entered the ground, and the brothers went back to their respective homes, and the boss's filial wife had to scold the boss at this time:
Are you in the brain, your mother is 50 years old this year, but people are sick when they are old for a few years, you actually promised not to spend money on seeing a doctor in the future, which costs more than a funeral for your father, you can't earn money, you don't have a brain, your mother is sick in the future, you don't run over there, you have to pay in the past, I don't come out".
The boss Xiaozhong lowered his head and didn't say a word.
Xiaode has never gambled since his father left, but he didn't do any work, so he planted an acre of land at home, and within a year, Xiaode's mother was sick, high blood pressure, coronary heart disease, and couldn't do any work. Cooking and burning a fire are dizzy and lying on the ground. Maybe it's Xiaode's father's departure that makes Xiaode's mother sad and old faster. Xiaode also has no way to go out and earn money. Just take care of his mom like this.
A year later, in June, Xiaode's mother had a sudden cerebral infarction, and Xiaode was hurriedly sent to the hospital, and by the way, he notified the three brothers, and the person was rescued, but he was also spread out on the bed. I stayed in the hospital for a few days, during which the second child Xiaoyi came to see once, picked up some supplements, stayed for a while and left. Hyo-deok dragged his mother home when the money was about to run out, and began to take care of his mother for 9 years.
Xiaode gets up every morning to scrub one side of his mother's body, and then moves his mother for half an hour to soothe his body that has long been unable to move, then cooks, feeds his mother, and works in the field, day after day. In order to prevent his mother from sleeping with back sores, the first thing he did when he came back was to keep his mother on his side for a period of time, and he had to hold on to this process all the time. His mother can't control his urine, and he doesn't know when to urinate, and Xiaode can only clean up every day, and there are always sheets hanging in the yard. Day after day, year after year. There is a saying in our local area: there is no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness. But Xiaode, a gambler, has been like this every day for 9 years.
Xiaode once discussed with a few brothers, whether a few sisters-in-law could come over to scrub it, but a few sisters-in-law were unwilling, and a few brothers also came over occasionally, and it was enough to mention a little something. Xiaode didn't complain, he didn't say a word more, a few sisters-in-law didn't scrub, he came to scrub, he thought about how many times he had been scrubbed by his mother from birth to **, and now he came to scrub his mother It is also in accordance with the principles of heaven. In 9 years, the life of filial piety has not been lived, and the money has not been earned, let alone marrying a daughter-in-law. introduced a woman, and when I heard that there was a paralyzed mother in bed at home, I didn't even see it.
Xiaode never had the luxury of marrying a daughter-in-law. In his own words, he was in debt. He was angry with his father, this was God's punishment for him, and he couldn't complain. When his father left, he didn't slap him with his hand, he slapped Xiaode, and this slap will be remembered for a lifetime. This is a life wake-up call that accompanies him, reminding him when he wants to complain the most that people always have their own responsibilities when they live in the world for a lifetime.
On the day of Xiaode's mother's death, Xiaode informed several brothers, kneeling in front of the bed without leaving a single tear, Xiaozhong, Xiaoyi, Xiaoxin and their daughter-in-law wailed and cried when they did not enter the courtyard gate.
Mom, my mom, why don't you wait for your son."
Oh, I don't have a mom anymore, mom, why don't you stay with me for a few more years."
You don't let your son do his filial piety."
The once quiet courtyard was filled with wailing, and this wail drifted far into the ears of the villagers, and the people who came to help looked at them were full of tears, crying silently: "It's really not easy, it's pitiful for a lifetime." Filial piety still has not a single tear.
The funeral was very large, Xiaoxin's family was a little better, and it was still the head of the funeral, of course, it was also decided after discussing it in the courtyard for a long time. Xiaoxin also took on an additional burden this time, calling for singing, filming, and crying. It was very lively.
The tactful cry of the professional crying spirit in front of the mourning hall, combined with the crying lyrics, led the filial sons to cry blood, and the people who listened were in tears. The hardest-hearted butcher in the village was red-eyed, the tongue-chewing woman lamenting and sighing, and the dolls were panicked and frightened. Xiaode knelt at the end of the crowd without saying a word or crying. The villagers said to Xiaode: "Your mother is old, you don't cry." You baby is not filial. ”
On the day when Xiaode's mother was buried, the filial sons thanked the villagers who helped, and the third filial piety letter stood in front of the township party with wine and said:
It's not easy for my mom to pull up my brothers, and my dad died unexpectedly early, leaving my mom alone, but who thinks, my mom died in just a few years, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to give my mom such a good funeral, thank you. ”
After returning the salute, the township party said: "It's really okay to be filial piety, it's okay to do things so well for his mother, this is a good baby." ”
After the thank-you ceremony was completed, the township party members dispersed, and the brothers also returned to their respective homes. Xiaode came into his mother's house, most of the clothes before his death, the sheets and quilts were buried with him, only the sheets on the head of the bed were left that had not had time to be washed, and on the day of his mother's death, he had just cleaned up the feces that his mother had pulled on the sheets, and the sheets that had been replaced were gone before they could be washed. He took the sheet to the yard and washed it, washing it as if he heard his mother calling him in the house, he instinctively agreed to say "hey", and then he was stunned, and then the tears couldn't stop staying, crying and washing. Tears fell into the basin of water, mixed with laundry detergent to rinse the stains on the sheets more and more clean.
After Xiaode died, everyone sometimes chatted after tea and dinner, and always started with Xiaode's gambling, and when it came to fucking funerals, he didn't leave a single tear, and then they argued.
Filial piety is not good, gambling is angry with his father, and he doesn't cry at his mother's funeral, not filial piety."
Nonsense, Xiaode later reformed himself, took care of his mother for 9 years, and can still say that he is not filial".
I sat next to them, listening to their discussions, and remembered what Xiaode had said.
This is what I owe, God's punishment for me, people live in this world, there are always things to do, responsibilities to bear. ”
Thinking of this, I don't know whether filial piety is filial piety or not.
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