Some girls are always aware of love, and they are a little naïve and confused in love. They may be able to do well at work and in life, but when they encounter relationship problems, they are like an innocent and ignorant child who will also behave at a loss when dealing with relationship problems.
First, he is always an afterthought and slow to respond to feelings.
Some girls are always very slow in terms of feelings, can't tell the difference between friendship and love, and are always easy to ignore the people around them who like and love her, even if the other party intentionally hints, she can't detect the other party's intentions, which will also make those who silently like her feel very helpless.
Second, he is always hesitant and overwhelmed in the face of emotional problems
Girls who are not open to feelings are always difficult to sort out the relationship in the relationship when they encounter complex emotional problems, and they will always think that the problem is very complicated, because of the lack of love experience, so they don't know how to solve the problems encountered in the relationship. It's like taking a simple puzzle piece into pieces by mistake, and then getting lost in those emotional pieces and not finding your way.
Third, they can't face up to their feelings and always like to run away
Because they have no emotional experience of being loved and loved, when they meet the object of their hearts, they may avoid feelings due to inner fear and dare not face their inner emotions.
They are afraid of being hurt and rejected, so they may choose to run away from the upcoming relationship and bury their inner emotions deep in their hearts.
First of all, you need to be patient enough with her and give her time to "grow".
Everyone's growth and maturity in the relationship is different, because of personal growth experience and character, the understanding and cognition of feelings will be different, so, love her, not only to accept her as she is, but also to have enough patience to grow with her, support and encourage her when she is in pain and confusion, so that she has the courage to face her inner emotions and difficulties.
Secondly, guide her to pay attention to her inner feelings and improve her empathy ability
For those girls who are not emotionally enlightened, if you tell her about the relationship problem directly, she may not be able to understand and accept it for a while. Therefore, we need to let her know what feelings are all about through some practical examples around us, guide her to follow her inner voice, bravely face the true emotions in her heart, and find her own emotional world.
In addition, solve her doubts, help her analyze, and encourage her to express her emotions
Because of their ignorance and ignorance of feelings, they may show doubts and confusion when they encounter relationship problems. We need to be by her side, listen carefully to her doubts, and help her analyze and find answers to her feelings.
In short, everyone's enlightenment to feelings is sooner or later, and only when she has really experienced it herself, will she understand the taste of love. Therefore, we need to maintain a little more patience and confidence in them, encourage her to express her true emotions, support and encourage her when she is confused and withdrawn, let her face her truest emotions, and help her solve the mystery of the relationship.