In a relationship, maintaining a proper distance is an important principle. Distance not only maintains independence and freedom from each other, but also enhances the depth and stability of feelings. So, what kind of distance should be kept in love?
First of all, distance produces beauty. This is an ancient and profound truth. When we get too close to our lovers, there may be contradictions and friction because of each other's shortcomings and inadequacies. And the appropriate distance can allow us to better appreciate the good and good things of each other, and make us cherish each other more. As Marx put it in a letter to his wife, Haiyan: "Constant contact can seem monotonous, the trivialities of daily life will grow up as a result, and deep enthusiasm will be expressed in everyday habits by the proximity of the object." As long as people are separated for a while, everything will return to its original state, and what was once regarded as important and unpleasant will now become a small thing, and the deep affection, under the magical influence of separation, will grow stronger and regain its inherent power. Therefore, the right distance can make our feelings deeper and more sincere.
Second, keeping the right distance allows us to better maintain our independence and freedom from each other. Both parties in a relationship should be independent individuals with their own interests, hobbies, and living space. If you rely too much on the other person, you may lose yourself and lead to an imbalance in your relationship. And the right distance allows us to better maintain ourselves and pursue our dreams and goals. This will make the relationship more healthy, equal and long-lasting.
In addition, maintaining proper distancing also strengthens our trust and communication skills. When we give the other person enough space and freedom, we show trust and respect for the other person. This trust will make our relationship stronger and more reliable. At the same time, proper distance can also allow us to communicate and communicate better. When we have enough time and space to think and reflect, we will express our thoughts and feelings more clearly, so as to better understand each other and increase mutual understanding and trust.
In conclusion, it is very important to maintain a proper distance in a relationship. It can make our feelings deeper, sincere, and lasting; It allows us to better maintain each other's independence and freedom; It can enhance our trust and communication skills. Of course, this distance is not fixed, but needs to be adjusted and balanced according to the emotional state and relationship mode of both parties. Only when we truly understand and master this principle can we go further, more stable, and happier in love.