I like Shu Ting's "To the Oak Tree", I think its romance lies in the fact that I love you, but I will not lose myself because of love, on the contrary, I will achieve myself because of love.
The reason why I have to stand by your side in the image of a "tree" is because I hope that the two of us are independent individuals, we have our own self-worth, and we also have our own direction of struggle. I will not cling to you because I want something from you. Because I firmly know that I will go and be myself even without you. "Thou hast thy branches of brass and iron, like knives, like swords, and like halberds," and "I have my red blossoms, like heavy sighs, and like a torch of valor." "The two of us have different upbringings, but we meet because of the resonance of the soul, we don't need too many words between us, even if it's just a look, a greeting, we can understand each other. And this kind of love is deeper and more eternal, isn't it? We "seem to be separated forever, but we are dependent on each other for life." ”
I think that only this kind of equal and independent love can "not only love your majestic body, but also love the position you insist on, the land under your feet." ”