Everyone has a soul, how to see through the depths of a person's soul through the outside, and find a cultivated man.
Between people, even if they are accompanied by each other every day, there is a layer of mist-like separation. It is both intimate and distant, clear and ambiguous. It's hard to figure out.
Some couples have lived together for decades, but they have never seen into each other's hearts, cannot understand each other's soul world, and can really become soul mates.
Especially for women, in the process of finding a partner, it is more necessary to have the ability to recognize a man at a glance.
A man's cultivation often determines his quality and stability in relationships.
So, how to identify a man's cultivation at a glance? Here are four key details to look out for.
A cultivated man should be decent, elegant, and generous in his speech and demeanor.
When they communicate with others, they will respect each other, listen patiently, and will not interrupt others.
They are good at using humorous, witty language to defuse embarrassment and make people feel comfortable and happy.
A cultivated man will also show a certain demeanor in his manners.
They don't make loud noises in public, they don't litter, they don't dictate to waiters.
These seemingly insignificant details actually reflect a person's upbringing and cultivation.
A man's cultivation will be manifested in his manners, and in his dealings with women, if he always moves his hands and feet, pretending to rub oil unintentionally is misconduct.
A man with good cultivation will not smoke in public because he will take into account the feelings of the people around him.
A man who often explodes foul language, boasts about strange talk, and brags about his past is always disgusting, because he lacks a pattern.
A person's cultivation can also be seen in how he treats the disadvantaged, and his patience can also be seen in how he treats the elderly and children.
There are very few well-bred men, but they are easy for you to spot.
It's in the nature of men to be rude, to be vulgar. They love violence! An uncultured man will see roughness and powerlessness as pleasure**.
Why do men like to watch "Water Margin"? Because the characters in the play are driven by their nature, they drink wine and eat meat in big bowls, pursuing women, power, wine and meat, and money.
If you get along with a well-bred man, you will perceive that the well-bred man is very attractive, and you will be like a spring breeze.
A cultivated man will have certain requirements for what he wears. They don't necessarily go after famous brands, but they will pay attention to the texture, cut, and matching of clothes.
They know how to dress appropriately for different occasions without being too casual or too restrictive.
In addition to dressing, a well-cultivated man will also pay attention to his appearance. They get regular haircuts, shaves, and maintain a neat and clean image.
These seemingly superficial details actually reflect a man's respect for himself and others.
A cultivated man should be decent and measured in handling interpersonal relationships. They will respect the privacy of others and will not be overly inquisitive about other people's affairs.
They will care about the feelings of others and will not wantonly hurt the feelings of others.
In their dealings with others, they are able to maintain their independence and dignity while giving them enough respect and care.
A cultivated man will also show a certain degree of self-cultivation in the face of contradictions and conflicts.
They will deal with problems in a rational and mature manner, and will not lose their temper easily and will not shirk their responsibilities.
Such a man will also be more stable and responsible in his relationship.
They focus on eating a healthy diet, maintaining a good sleep schedule, and participating in sports regularly.
At the same time, we will also pay attention to personal hygiene, and always maintain a clean and tidy image.
In addition, they also pay attention to their inner cultivation and enrich their spiritual world through reading, writing, art appreciation, etc.
These healthy lifestyle habits not only help to maintain good health, but also help to improve one's inner cultivation and quality.
If you want to become a cultivated man, you must first realize the importance of self-cultivation and always be vigilant and self-disciplined in your daily life.
A well-bred man tends to earn more respect and affection in life.
1.When walking with a lady, take the initiative to walk closer to the side of the driveway and keep the danger to yourself. Remember to say thank you after paying the order.
2.When you enter the door, you can take the initiative to push the door and pull the door for you, let others go first, and take the initiative to assist pregnant women and children in need.
3.If he communicates with you, he will let you hang up first, so that he can feel at ease.
4.In public places, especially places with children, they will pay extra attention when talking and will not talk about some *** topics.
5.Driving will give way, and on rainy days will slow down appropriately, not road rage sufferers.
6.When talking to people, they listen carefully and don't talk to you while playing with their phones.
7.He's going to be very focused on something.
8.When I go to your home, I don't just sit on your bed and I don't flip your things at will.
In short, in order to identify a man's cultivation at a glance, it is necessary to pay attention to his speech and behavior, dress, interpersonal relationships and living habits.
Through these details, we can preliminarily judge a man's qualities and accomplishments, and provide a reference for our emotional choices.
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