There are signs of a family's decay, and these two strange things often occur, so we should be vigilant
I grew up in a happy family, with loving parents and harmonious brothers. At that time, although our family was not wealthy, it was always full of laughter. However, as time went on, I began to notice something unusual.
What first caught my attention was my father's temper. He was originally a gentle and loving person, but at some point he became more and more irritable and irritable. I often get angry because of some small things, and the atmosphere at home becomes tense because of this. I remember one time, just because my brother accidentally broke a cup, my father was so angry that he was so frightened that he hid in his room and didn't dare to come out. The mother tried to persuade her, but to no avail.
Another strange thing is the family's financial situation. Although my parents never revealed their financial situation to us, I was keenly aware of the family's shrinking expenses. In the past, we would go out as a family to travel or have dinner to celebrate every holiday, but then these activities became less and less, and even the usual diet became simple and plain. I asked my mother what was going on, and she always said vaguely, "Now that prices are high, we need to save a little more." "But I knew in my heart that it wasn't that simple.
These two strange things made me wary. I realized that the decline of the family was not sudden, but had signs to follow. I started to pay more attention to the interaction and communication between family members, trying to get to the root of the problem.
One night, I plucked up the courage to ask my father, "Dad, why have you been angry lately?" The father was stunned for a moment, then sighed and said, "Child, you don't know how much competition pressure there is outside. Things don't go well at work, and I want to relax when I get home, but you always worry me. "Listening to my father's words, my heart was sour. It turned out that he didn't mean to lose his temper, but was overwhelmed by life.
I turned to my mother again: "Mom, has our family been experiencing any difficulties lately?" The mother was silent for a while, and finally said, "Your father's company has not been doing well recently, and our income has also been affected. We didn't want you to worry, so we didn't tell you. "My mother's words made me realize that the family's financial difficulties were due to my father's work problems.
After learning the truth of the matter, I decided to take action to help the family through this difficult time. I offered to reduce my pocket money to save money for my family. I also encouraged my younger brother to study hard and try to get a scholarship to ease the burden on his parents. At the same time, I also began to pay attention to my father's mood changes and try to comfort and support him when he was in a bad mood.
After a period of hard work, I noticed that the atmosphere in the family began to slowly improve. My father's temper has become much gentler, and the family's financial situation has improved. Although we have not yet returned to our former affluent life, at least we have come out of the predicament and regained the warmth and happiness of our family.
Looking back on this experience, I deeply feel that the decay of a family is not without a trace. When there are often abnormal mood swings and financial problems in the family, we should be vigilant. As a member of the family, we must have the courage to face difficulties and actively look for solutions to solve problems, so as to avoid the decay of the family.
Communication and understanding are essential in this process. We should pay more attention to the feelings and needs of family members, identify problems in time and solve them together. Only in this way can we protect a happy family together.
Now that I'm grown up, I have my own family and career. But whenever I think back to that difficult time and the dedication and hard work of my parents, I am deeply grateful and admired. They taught me how to face adversity and how to cherish the warmth and happiness of my family. These valuable experiences will accompany me through every stage of my life.
I would like to tell all readers and friends: please cherish the family members around you! When they are struggling or in a bad mood, give them more care and support. Because in this world, nothing is more precious than the warmth and happiness of family. Let's work together to protect this beauty!
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