Women's non-contact is indeed a test of men's patterns. You know, women, they are always curious about new things and look forward to the unknown. In those days when I first met you, she was full of curiosity and enthusiasm for you, wasn't it?At that time, the chat was always pleasant and in-depth, she cared about every detail of you, and brought you a lot of emotional value.
However, as the novelty wears off, she begins to become cold and even somewhat passive. You may wonder, why is that?Actually, it's not your fault, it's a woman's nature. They are always eager for what they can't get, and they may lose interest in what they already have.
What should you do in the face of her snubbing?Remember,Don't dwell too much on it, it will only make you look humbleAnd it doesn't solve the problem either. On the contrary, you should maintain your independence and dignity, and understand that adult love is not something that can be bought by giving or being sincere. Pleasing will only make your relationship unequal, and she will become more and more arrogant and perfunctory as a result.
So, what should you do?I'm going to tell you three things. First of all,Accept it and go with the flow。In a relationship, how much you give is not equal to how much happiness you can get. Sometimes, even if you give your all, you may not be able to get her sympathy and love. So, remember, the more you do when her heart isn't on your side, the more you can get wrong.
Secondly, if she doesn't take the initiative, you shouldn't take the initiative either。The woman is very simple, if she wants to contact you, even if she is introverted, she will take the initiative to find you. If she doesn't want to contact you, no matter how much you look for her, she won't respond. So, keep your principles and bottom line, and don't affect your mindset and emotions because of her actions.
Finally, it is necessary to regain the psychological advantage and initiative. Remember, you and she are equal. The more secure you are, the less secure she is;The more you can't live without her, the more she wants to leave you. Therefore, the most important thing is to focus on yourself. Let her know that you can still live well without her.
Feelings are like quicksand, the tighter you hold them, the faster they drain away. So, don't push too hard. Instead of giving her all your love and sincerity, it is better to love yourself well first. Because you are at the heart of it all.