Women must only rely on themselves in the process of growth
Some time ago, I was chatting with a friend, and she said that she felt that she was in her twenties and had achieved nothing, neither a good career nor a good savings, and she wanted to get married to get rid of this predicament.
When girls' economic conditions are not very good, don't pin your hopes on finding someone to lift you up and solve the so-called life dilemma, whether you are for money or love.
Because at this time, you are limited by the lack of vision and experience, and you cannot judge whether a person is good or bad.
Girls who do not have advantages in work, education, material, academic ability, and even physical appearance cannot have the right to choose someone who has the ability to get out of your predicament.
Even if you are lucky enough to meet someone who is willing to lift and save you, it will be difficult to maintain it well.
Because a positive and positive relationship relies not only on love, but also on mutual respect and mutual long-term value output. Unequal feelings test the humanity of the other party.
Looking at all the girls around me who are doing well, the same thing is that they have a job or career that they rely on to survive, and they can improve themselves from different dimensions for a long time.
Cinderella happened to meet the fairy who gave her a gorgeous dress, which made the prince fall in love with her. The beast Belle encounters happens to be the prince.
But in reality, we have neither fairies nor pumpkin carts, and if we encounter a beast, it is really a beast.
Girls never have to wait for others to save us, we can save ourselves.