Come on for the back-to-school season
It's been a week or two since the start of the school year, are parents excited and nervous about the start of kindergarten? It is the first time that children who enter kindergarten in the spring have been away from home for a long time and have begun to live in a group.
It is a new beginning for both children and parents, children will go to school to learn new skills, and parents will also learn to adapt to the anxiety and worry of their children suddenly leaving their side.
So how can we, as parents, help our children integrate into the new community? Don't worry, I'll give you a few tips today!
Niu Niu is two and a half years old, and his mother wants to send him to kindergarten. When the weather is warm, I will take him to the kindergarten downstairs to go around twice every day, so that he can familiarize himself with the surrounding environment of the kindergarten in advance.
Avoid two days after the official delivery of Niu Niu into the kindergarten, he will be reluctant to go, when the children play, Niu Niu can also observe how the children in the kindergarten activities.
This can make Niu Niu adapt to the life of the kindergarten faster, before the child officially enters the kindergarten, parents can learn from the practice of Niu Niu's mother, take the child to visit the kindergarten, understand the kindergarten environment, facilities, curriculum and other conditions. Let the child be familiar with the kindergarten and reduce the strangeness.
At the same time, parents can also communicate with kindergarten teachers to understand the problems that their children may face in kindergarten and prepare psychologically in advance.
After entering kindergarten, children will begin to face life independently, so parents should cultivate their children's self-care skills in advance. For example, eating by yourself, going to the toilet, wearing ** clothes, etc. In this way, the child can take better care of himself and reduce anxiety in kindergarten.
The child learns a certain amount of self-care ability, which can allow him to adapt to group life quickly, so that the child will not cry more because of separation anxiety.
Maybe the child does not learn much self-care ability, but as a parent, you must have the patience to guide the child slowly. First of all, at least the child should know about eating, drinking, and Lazar, so that he can clearly tell the teacher in kindergarten.
The schedule in kindergarten may be different from that at home, so parents should start to adjust their children's schedules some time before school starts, so that they can go to bed early and wake up early to ensure adequate sleep.
In this way, children can better adapt to the rhythm of kindergarten after entering the kindergarten and reduce the phenomenon of crying. There are many parents who feel that since their children do not go to school, they do not need a reasonable schedule.
Often at 11 or 2 o'clock in the evening, the child is still doing strenuous exercise, resulting in sleeping until 11 or 2 o'clock the next morning, which reverses the child's schedule. When the child goes to kindergarten, it will definitely not be adaptable, so parents must adjust the child's schedule in advance.
In kindergarten, children need to play and learn with their peers, so parents need to enhance their children's social skills. You can take your children to play in public places and participate in parent-child activities, so that children can learn to communicate, share and cooperate with others. In this way, the child can integrate into the group more quickly after entering the kindergarten.
Some people say that everyone's personality is different. For some introverted children, they may not be good at communicating. In fact, this is not the case, every child is a master of socialization.
Every child is good at communicating, maybe although he has few words, it does not mean that he is not good at communication, so parents should always provide children with social skills.
Although the child has entered the kindergarten, the love and attention of the parents cannot be less. Parents can communicate with their children when picking up and dropping off their children, ask them about their situation in the kindergarten, and let them feel the care and love of their parents.
At the same time, parents should also be careful not to spoil their children excessively, so that they can learn to face problems independently. You can't take your child back because you can't stand the crying when you send your child to school.
When parents compromise and send their children to kindergarten again, it will be very difficult to send them off, and the child will do everything he can to go home with you.
It is inevitable for children to cry in kindergarten, so parents must communicate with their children in advance. You can read picture books to your child in daily life, let him know about kindergarten life, and tell your child that he goes to kindergarten not because his parents don't love him.
Even if the child is sent to kindergarten, the parents' love for the child should not be reduced, so that he has a process of slowly adapting. Finally, did your child send it to kindergarten? Did the child cry? Leave a message in the comment area.
Original: Rui Ma's Parenting.
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