In the long river of life, we are often attracted by those vigorous love, however, when the prosperity is exhausted and the lights are dim, we find that the most heart-warming things in life are often those inconspicuous little things - the small daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt.
The biggest sorrow of a family is not poverty, but that both husband and wife do not understand this: the warmth of firewood, rice, oil and salt is the most affectionate confession in the world, please cherish the person who has not left since he came to you.
The trivial daily life of firewood, rice, oil and salt is like the fragrance of rice wafting in the air, like the oil stains on clothes, and like a touch of salt in ordinary life, which is inconspicuous but indispensable. This kind of love is the most affectionate confession, it tells us that cherishing the person who has never left after coming is the greatest happiness in life.
In "Dream of Red Mansions", the story of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is a lingering and sympathetic love song. Although their feelings for each other are not explicitly stated, they are undoubtedly revealed in the trivial things of life.
Baoyu's care for Daiyu is reflected in his every smile, every greeting, and his sleepless companionship when she is sick. These subtle and extreme care converge into a gentle river, silently nourishing Daiyu's heart. And Daiyu, although delicate, also responds to Baoyu in her own way, whether it is the handkerchief embroidered for him or reading poetry with him, her every action is full of affection.
However, as fate would have it, the relationship failed to blossom in the end. Daiyu died with hatred, Baoyu became a monk, and their love became a tragedy. But it is this tragedy that makes us deeply appreciate the deep emotions contained in the ordinary things in life. They are silent but intense, they are earthy but persistent.
True love doesn't have to be vigorous, and the trickle of water in daily life is the truest embodiment of love. Cherish the person who pays silently by your side and always sticks to it regardless of the wind and rain, because this is the most affectionate confession.
In "Norwegian Wood", the subtle and deep emotion between Watanabe and Naoko is the longest confession of the warmth of firewood, rice, oil and salt. After Naoko's death, Watanabe's life seems to have lost its focus, but those daily bits and pieces, like the temperature she left in the world, made Watanabe gradually come out of the loss.
Their stories tell us that life's most mundane details often carry the most sincere emotions. The person who silently accompanies you and always sticks to it regardless of the wind and rain is actually the most affectionate confession. Their presence is like a light that illuminates the dark corners of our lives.
In real life, there is a husband and wife volunteer who met in a ** rescue and then devoted themselves to public welfare together. Day after day, running and tired, but because of each other's company, it becomes full of meaning. They proved with their actions that life is not just a romantic candlelight dinner, but also the courage and determination to fight side by side at the scene of the disaster.
The ordinariness of life actually contains extraordinary power. Cherish those things that seem inconspicuous but can accompany them for a long time, they are the most valuable wealth on the road of life. Like firewood, rice, oil and salt, although it is not dazzling, it is the most real background color of life.
In the same way, the person who came and never left is a gift from fate, and their company is more moving and precious than any flowery rhetoric. Let's learn to cherish and feel this confession of the longest love with our hearts.
The one in your mind may not be a peerless style, nor is he a talented person, but he silently guards you in his own way. His arrival is like a spring breeze, gentle and without traces; His company is like the starry sky on a summer night, ordinary but shining with eternal light; His perseverance is like the warm sun of autumn, warm and unassuming; His loyalty, like a winter furnace, burns with the deepest passion.
In this fast-paced world, it is a rare happiness to have someone to spend ordinary time with you.
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