In the early days of love, it was like an early summer breeze, gently brushing on the cheeks, with the sweetness of honey, which made people intoxicated and unable to extricate themselves. The two hearts cling to each other, as if in this vast world, there is only each other's existence. Every meeting of eyes is like the meeting of stars and moons, full of beautiful visions and expectations for the future.
However, with the passage of time, choosing to live together has become a must for many couples. At the beginning of living together, each other was like explorers, stepping into this new world with trepidation and curiosity. After all, it is no longer a person's world, and every tiny habit, every casual detail, may become the focus of the other person's eyes.
As a result, we begin to learn to respect each other, to hide the little flaws that may displease each other, and to bring out the best in each other. We try to show our gentleness and thoughtfulness, just to win more love and pampering from each other. We are like actors, trying our best to play each other's favorite roles, just to make this relationship more perfect.
But the heat of love is like the scorching sun of midsummer, and it will gradually fade after all. The sweetness of the past is also like the autumn leaves, gone with the wind, leaving only a faint sadness. As time passed, the hidden shortcomings began to be revealed. Some boys, perhaps influenced by the ridicule that "men are all big pigs' trotters", do not pay much attention to hygiene. After work, as soon as he took off his shoes and socks, he lay on the sofa and indulged in the world of games, as if the whole universe was spinning at his fingertips. And when the girl dragged her tired body home, seeing this scene, the irritability and disappointment in her heart can be imagined.
Still, we in love need to learn to be understanding and tolerant. The boy may simply be immersed in his own world, forgetting that the outside world exists. Girls, on the other hand, also need to learn to communicate and remind boys to pay attention to some details in a gentle way. Only in this way can our love be more lasting and beautiful.
Some girls may have been misled into believing that girls do not need to be able to cook, so they are not good at cooking and household chores. However, this does not mean that they are not willing to give for their families. Over time, boys may be forced to take on the role of "househusband", and chores such as boiling water, cooking, and washing dishes become their daily routine. For many boys who have been taught from an early age that "men should stand tall in the sky", this change of role can be a challenge and a problem.
After living together for a long time, in addition to these daily small frictions, we will also find that there are some "heavy taste" habits between each other. These habits may be well hidden in the early stages of a relationship, but over time, they gradually surface like the tip of the iceberg. For example, a boy may find that a girl likes to keep some weird little pets at home, or a girl may find that a boy has some little quirks that are not well known.
However, these seemingly insignificant little habits and frictions are actually an indispensable part of love. They make love more real and grounded. Through mutual running-in and mutual growth, we cherish each other more and know how to tolerate and understand each other more. Because, love is a journey of mutual support and mutual achievement. In this process, we need to learn to accept and adapt to each other's differences, so that love can be better in mutual understanding and tolerance.
In the manga, the life of a boy and a girl after living together is vividly depicted. Those seemingly trivial things actually contain deep emotions. They let us see the truth and beauty in love, and also let us know how to cherish and manage our love more. Because, true love is not smooth sailing, but we need to constantly improve and improve in mutual run-in and growth.
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