Human nature is like a deep mine, in which all kinds of complex emotions and motivations are hidden. In this complex human nature, the most fatal thing is the jealousy and rejection of the success of those around you. This kind of psychology makes people often more willing to see the glory of outsiders, and even envy and worship the success of distant and strange people. However, when the people around you are slightly better than you, or when the people close at hand have achieved something, the feelings of jealousy and hatred come flooding over you. 
People often mistakenly believe that their own suffering stems from their own mediocrity. But in reality, more pain comes from seeing those around you be more successful than you. This kind of psychology is like a vine growing in a dark corner, twisted and stupid. Imagine living in the midst of a group of people who are far inferior to you, or living in a crowd where everyone is better than you, which environment would be more beneficial to you. The answer is obvious, the latter will undoubtedly bring out your potential and allow you to improve through comparison and reference. However, many people would rather choose the former, preferring to sink in mediocrity and laziness rather than see those around them surpass themselves. They forget that they are motivated when everyone around them is improving, and vice versa. This kind of atmosphere of mutual encouragement and common progress is the best soil to promote personal growth. What's even more absurd is that when the people around them encounter misfortune, these people can actually get psychological satisfaction from it. They would rather see the failures and pain of those around them than face their own imperfections and predicaments. This distorted mentality makes them lose their inner peace and kindness in comparison and comparison. 
If we can have good intentions, wish others their success, and show concern for their misfortunes, then the world will be a better place because of our kindness. Just like giving roses to others, there is fragrance in your hands, and being kind to others is actually treating yourself well. Because in this interconnected world, everyone's successes and failures affect our destiny invisibly. 
So, let us let go of the jealousy and prejudice in our hearts, and sincerely appreciate and bless the success of those around us. Because in this society full of competition and cooperation, everyone is really good. A win-win situation is the highest level of win.