My name is Lin Wan'er, I am a girl who is nearly 30 years old, my parents have been urging me to find a partner, and finally met my true son in a blind date, his name is Li Haoran, and he is the manager of a company. He was tall and handsome, with deep eyes, and his smile was as warm as the sun. I fell in love at first sight, he also had a crush on me, and we quickly established a relationship.
We fell in love, and in order for us to get married, our parents bought us a wedding house, which cost 1.8 million, which is their life savings, and we are very grateful for their support and help. The wedding room is located in a high-end community in the center of the city, with three bedrooms and two living rooms, and the decoration is exquisite, and every corner reveals the hearts of the parents. We started to decorate the wedding room to create a warm and comfortable home, we spent many happy and unforgettable times here, and we also have a lovely son named Li Xiaobao. He is our treasure, and we treat him as our little angel and take care of him in every detail.
Our life was supposed to be very happy, but one day, my mother-in-law suddenly issued an eviction order, saying that we should not live here, and when she and her father-in-law died, we would come back and let us move out. I'm angry, I think this is our wedding room, why can't we live here? It turned out that my mother-in-law wanted to drive us away because I didn't let her lick the rice for Xiaobao with her mouth, and she felt that I didn't respect her. I felt that this was a very unhygienic practice that would affect Xiaobao's health, and I advised her not to do this, but she said that it was her habit, her love, and I had no right to interfere. I had an argument with her, and she went crazy, saying that I was ignorant, unfilial, and ungrateful for it, and she said that she was the master of this house, and she had the final say, and she let us go, and we had to go.
My husband and I reasoned with my mother-in-law, but she didn't listen and insisted on letting us go, we had no choice but to move to a nearby hotel, I was very disappointed and felt that my mother-in-law was too unreasonable. I think, our wedding house was bought by my parents for 1.8 million, why did she drive us away? What right does she have to say it's her home? She's just a guest staying here, and she doesn't have any right to interfere in our lives. I decided to have a showdown with my mother-in-law, I said that our marriage house was bought by my parents for 1.8 million, and she had no right to evict us, if she didn't want us to live, give us 1.8 million, and we would buy the house ourselves.
My mother-in-law listened to my words and was very angry, she said that we are losers, we don't know how to cherish money, she and her father-in-law have worked hard all their lives to have this home, and she doesn't let us live in it just to educate us. She said that we don't know how to be grateful, we don't know how much she has done for us, she said that she is for our good, wants us to be independent, and not rely on our parents. She said that we should not treat our parents' money as our own, we should work hard to earn money and buy our own house. She said that we have no shame, no backbone, no dignity, we will only take advantage of our parents, she said we don't deserve to live in this house, she said she won't give us a penny, she said we can get out.
I quarreled with my mother-in-law very fiercely, woke up Xiaobao, he ran out crying, we were all a little distressed, I hugged Xiaobao, comforted him not to cry, at this time, my husband came back. He came back from working overtime at the company, he saw our quarrel and was surprised, he asked me what was wrong, I told him what happened, he was heavy, he said Mom, we don't want to challenge your authority, we just want to live in our own house. He said that we are grateful for your care and help to us, but we also have our own ideas and choices, and we hope that you will respect us and not interfere in our lives. He said that we are not losers, we are not ignorant, we are not unfilial, we are not ungrateful, we just want to have our own space and live our own lives.
The mother-in-law listened to her husband's words and tears flowed, she said that she knew that she was talking too much, but this home is the brainchild of her and her father-in-law, and she hopes that we can take good care of it and not waste it. She said that she was for our good, wanted us to grow up, and not always rely on our parents. She said that she loved us, loved Xiaobao, she didn't want to fall out with us, she was just impulsive and said some angry words. She said she was willing to reconcile with us, she said she wouldn't kick us away again, and she said she welcomed us to stay here.
I listened to my mother-in-law's words, and I didn't get angry anymore, I said that we don't want to waste this home, we also cherish it, we just want to have our own space and live our own life. I said that we also love her and love my father-in-law, and we don't want to fall out with her, we just got excited and said some impulsive things. I said we were willing to reconcile with her, I said we wouldn't quarrel with her anymore, and I said we thanked her for letting us stay here.
We sat down with my mother-in-law and discussed how to solve this problem, and in the end, we came to a consensus, we will continue to live in this house, but we must respect each other, be considerate, and stop arguing over trivial matters. We also need to communicate more with our parents so that they understand our thoughts and feelings and don't let them worry. We should also pay more attention to the health and life of our mother-in-law and father-in-law, so that they can feel our filial piety and love. We should also accompany Xiaobao more, give him a happy and healthy growth environment, and make him a responsible and caring person.
Since then, our family has lived in harmony and lived a happy life, and we have also made our own contribution to this family, which makes my mother-in-law feel gratified, and we are also grateful to our parents for giving us such a wonderful home. We understand that family harmony requires the joint efforts of everyone, we must learn to protect our own rights and interests, but also learn to respect the rights and interests of others, only in this way, can we truly enjoy the beauty of life.
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