Foreword:
In this era of material abundance but indifference to human affection, family affection seems to be becoming more and more scarce.
A small misunderstanding or a slight negligence can make a child doubt the love of his parents.
The parent-child relationship is like a fragile mirror that needs to be cared for to stay clear and bright forever.
However, sometimes the slightest mottling on the mirror surface can be ruthlessly magnified into a broken crack.
That's the story for today.
A child's birthday is not so much a celebration for the child as it is to satisfy the vanity of the parents themselves.
Huang Shengyi's luxurious celebration of the 12th birthday of his eldest son Andy Yang undoubtedly aroused strong attention and questions from **.
The birthday party scene was amazing.
Back to March 3, 2024, the famous actor Huang Shengyi held a special birthday banquet for his eldest son Andy Yang.
Originally, netizens thought it was just an ordinary birthday party, but after Huang Shengyi took the *** of the scene, everyone was stunned.
The whole banquet scene can be described as luxurious and extravagant to the extreme.
From the layout to the decoration, from the decoration to the atmosphere creation, all show the limit of Huang Sheng's ability to rely on money.
The birthday banquet scene seems to be a dreamy palace, full of fairy tale colors.
People can't help but sigh, is this how rich people celebrate their birthdays? It's too much!
Is there a parent-child relationship?
Although the atmosphere was warm, attentive netizens still found some clues.
For example, the blessings of his younger brother Yang Anlin were immature but sincere, and the cheers of his friends were also enthusiastic.
But Andy Yang himself seemed a little restrained and confused, as if he was not fully immersed in this grand birthday party.
This has aroused questions and speculation from netizens, believing that there is an obvious difference between Huang Shengyi and his wife's parent-child relationship between their two sons.
They believe that Huang Shengyi obviously prefers the younger son An Lin, while there is some alienation and differential treatment of the eldest son Andy.
The speculation of netizens is not made up out of thin air.
In fact, as early as the Lantern Festival on February 24, 2024, Huang Shengyi once caused controversy because he showed intimacy and distancing in the celebration.
At that time, she hugged her two sons in exactly the same way, but Andy seemed extremely reserved.
This made netizens question whether Huang Shengyi's differential treatment of the two sons was hidden behind **.
Back in the day, similar"Evidence"And quite a few.
In a group photo in March 2023, Andy sat unnaturally on the side, while Huang Shengyi sat in the middle with An Lin in his arms affectionately.
At the bottom of the comment area, there are many netizens who kindly reminded Huang Shengyi to care more about his eldest son.
What's even more ridiculous is that Huang Shengyi and his wife will release a Douyin family** at the end of 2023.
*, Yang Zi is helping his grandmother recognize people, and he actually recognizes his eldest son Andy wrong!
This completely detonated the anger of netizens, who condemned them for treating Andy as a person"Picked up children"。
In the face of such strong doubts and accusations, it is hard to believe that Huang Shengyi and his wife are really so cold to their eldest son Andy.
So why do they behave so differently? There must be something hidden in it.
Moved Andy from Shanghai to Beijing.
In fact, Huang Shengyi and his wife did all this just out of the most simple parental love.
Many years ago, in order to allow Andy to obtain better educational resources, the family moved from Shanghai to Beijing.
For the average person, moving is just a trifle.
But for Mr. and Mrs. Huang Shengyi, whose career focus is in Shanghai, this is undoubtedly a difficult decision, and it will cost a great shift in career and life focus.
However, for the sake of their children, they took the initiative to make this sacrifice.
This is the best expression of their deep parental love for Andy.
If they really don't have a sincere love for Andy as netizens said, they can hire a housekeeper or nanny to accompany them, and stay in Shanghai by themselves, so why don't they have to go to such great lengths to follow them personally.
It shows that Huang Shengyi and his wife's love for their eldest son is by no means false.
The birthday party was filled with the deep love of parents.
Back to this controversial birthday party.
Recalling the scene of that day, it is not difficult for us to find the thought that Huang Shengyi and his wife put into the arrangement.
At the beginning of the birthday banquet, the youngest son An Lin congratulated his brother in immature language.
Although they stumbled, the sincere heart touched the protagonist Andy deeply, and the two brothers hugged each other to show their affection.
Then Andy's best friends entered the venue, cheering and blessing the atmosphere was high, and the foam sprayed by the bubble gun made the scene even more fantastic.
In the process of creating these scenes, who could have imagined what kind of effort Huang Shengyi and his wife had put in?
In order to give their son the best birthday experience, they did not hesitate to carve insect skills in details, and even the selection of dishes was extremely exquisite.
A table of roast goose, beef, steamed fish, prawns, hairy crabs, fish tofu, etc., is enough to make people's appetite move.
In the face of such a sumptuous feast, even the most discerning diners will inevitably be amazed.
With such pomp and circumstance, isn't it that Huang Shengyi and his wife are full of deep love for their son?
The parent-child relationship is never missing.
From the decoration to the banquet, the intentions of Huang Shengyi and his wife at this birthday banquet are obvious to all.
However, tracing back to the source, the reason why they are questioned about the existence of kinship and alienation is also due to some past"Ironclad evidence"。
remembers that on Christmas 2022, Huang Shengyi also posted a group photo of a family of three on his personal social platform.
*, she hugged An Lin affectionately and was inseparable from her; Andy, on the other hand, stood detached, looking a little wooden.
This sparked heated discussions among netizens, thinking that she regarded Andy as"Marginal people"。
Immediately afterwards, Huang Shengyi posted an article at the beginning of the new year to explain his performance.
She said that Andy was introverted and shy, so she appeared more reserved when taking photos.
She did not deliberately alienate Andy, but out of respect and consideration for Andy's personality traits.
This explanation can be regarded as justifying his own name, and it also relieved netizens.
But only half a year later, Huang Shengyi was once again involved in the controversy over the parent-child relationship.
It was a birthday party in mid-2023, and Huang Shengyi focused on An Lin intentionally or unintentionally in his greetings.
This made netizens feel that she loved her youngest son more in her heart, and let Andy bear it for no reason"Snubbed"suspicion.
Faced with the doubts of netizens, Huang Shengyi and his wife once again defended, saying that their two sons were equally cherished in their hearts.
It's just because Andy is more independent and used to paying less attention that he will appear to be a little deviant in his external behavior.
The above-mentioned past events were dragged out by netizens to turn over old accounts and criticize Huang Shengyi for treating his two sons with heart.
As everyone knows, the parent-child relationship has never been missing, but I was blinded by the external appearance and couldn't see the essence of the matter.
Conclusion: If a fruit can be nurtured and matured only by nutrients and sunlight, then the love between people is probably far more complicated.
Love is not only an act, but also a kind of heart-to-heart connection; Not only through practical actions, but also in some seemingly simple but inherently rich details.
The French writer Dudran once said: God has given the greatest gift to parents, that is, children.
As a parent, you must nurture and nurture your child with a loving heart.
Of course, to outsiders, parenting may seem a bit rough.
However, in a unique and pure way, they have sown the seeds of love in the lives of their children.
Yes, Mr. and Mrs. Huang may not be perfect in the way they treat their children.
But love is present and will never be missing.
We should not take superficial phenomena as the whole of judgment.
Behind the scenes, Huang Shengyi and his wife have made too many sacrifices and sacrifices for their children.
So, Andy, don't you really feel the love of your mom and dad?