Yafang Family Education is a professional organization focusing on adolescent mental health education and personalized growth guidance, providing diversified services including stimulation of learning motivation, improvement of parent-child relationship, adjustment of behavior and habits, recovery of Internet addiction, correction of school boredom and truancy, and guidance of adolescent rebellion. In the face of the problem of children not going to school intermittently, through scientific family education concepts and professional psychological counseling techniques, we help parents understand the psychological reasons behind their children's behaviors, and formulate personalized education plans for families to promote the healthy growth and all-round development of children.
Children do not go to school intermittently, parents need to understand and care as the premise, while sticking to the bottom line of education, Yafang believes that when necessary, it is necessary to "ruthlessly" push the child.
Yafang Education Case: Children don't go to school intermittently, how can parents have a bottom line?
Find the right time and environment to communicate with your child about the specific reasons why they are reluctant to go to school, whether it is due to academic pressure, interpersonal relationships, or physical or psychological problems. Understanding the nature of the problem is the first step in solving it. It is their basic responsibility and obligation to clearly inform children that going to school and that not attending school has a negative impact on their academic and personal growth. Parents need to provide support and help if their child is experiencing difficulties or problems. For example, you can help your child make a study plan, provide learning resources, or seek professional counseling. Making children feel loved and supported by their parents can help them learn more motivatingly.
If a child refuses to go to school without a valid reason, parents should stick to their principles and not compromise easily. Don't give up or lose confidence easily, but help your child gradually overcome difficulties and regain the joy and motivation to learn through encouragement and guidance.
You can seek professional help if necessary.
During this period, parents should set an example by showing a rule-abiding and diligent attitude, so that children understand that everything needs to start and finish, and that avoiding is not the solution to the problem. When a child violates the bottom line, parents need to punish them appropriately so that the child understands that their behavior is unacceptable. At the same time, when a child achieves a certain learning outcome or progress, parents also need to give appropriate rewards to motivate the child to continue to work hard.