"Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin" is not only a fascinating costume drama, but also a treasure book full of life wisdom. Among them, the dialogue between Mother Liu and Mrs. Wang is a profound interpretation of the wisdom of marriage.
On the stage of marriage, if you want to live a happy life, you must not only know how to manage, but also have wisdom. The dialogue between Mother Liu and Mrs. Wang is applicable to both ancient society and modern life. Mrs. Wang caught Lin Xiaoniang's mistake and insisted on punishing her, even not giving him face when Sheng Hong persuaded her. This approach often gives Lin Xiaoniang the upper hand, but in fact, it is because Mrs. Wang can't hold her breath. In marriage, it is important to give respect and steps to each other, which is related to the harmony and stability of the family.
Mrs. Wang's mention of the concubine touched Sheng Hong's sore spot. Even if she was talking about Changfeng, Sheng Hong didn't want to listen to it. What's more, he was in love with Lin Xiaoniang deeply at that time, and Mrs. Wang's words naturally aroused his anger. In the modern world, we also need to avoid mentioning embarrassing past events in marriage. No matter what happens, if you want to maintain family harmony, you can't sting each other with sad things from the past.
Mother Liu's teachings are full of wisdom, and she pointed out that in marriage, you should not compete for the moment, but should take a long-term view and distinguish priorities. Mrs. Wang only thought about competing with Lin Xiaoniang, but ignored the overall interests of the family. As the society advocated at that time, Changbai's achievements are the guarantee of the future of Mrs. Wang. Mother Liu's words made Mrs. Wang wake up from a dream and provide us with valuable inspiration.
What happened to Mrs. Wang in the play shows us the mistakes that many people are prone to make in marriage. When faced with the favor of their husbands being taken away by others, many people choose direct confrontation rather than overcoming rigidity with softness. This practice of not giving the other party a step, although it temporarily vents emotions, it lays a hidden danger for the marriage. As the old saying goes, "Home and everything prospers." "In marriage, learning to give the other person is actually maintaining the harmony and stability of the whole family.
Liu's mother's words are like good medicine, ** Mrs. Wang's confusion and confusion in marriage. At the same time, it also reminds us that marriage is not only an emotional exchange, but also a journey that requires long-term planning. In marriage, we should not only focus on the immediate gains and losses, but also consider how to make the relationship stronger in the long term. As Confucius said: "The gentleman is harmonious but different, and the villain is the same but not harmonious." "In marriage, we must learn to seek common ground while reserving differences, respect each other's individuality and differences, and work together to create a harmonious family environment.
Although modern society has abandoned the complex rules of ancient society, the wisdom and principles of marriage still apply. In the fast-paced life, we should learn to cherish and respect each other and avoid unnecessary disputes and injuries. Every concession and inclusion is contributing to the future of the family. As a wise man once said, "Marriage requires patience and forgiveness, because true happiness does not come from a fleeting passion, but from a long companionship." ”
To sum up, the dialogue between Mother Liu and Mrs. Wang in "Do You Know" reveals the wisdom and harmony in marriage for us. In marriage, we must learn to overcome rigidity with softness and give each other respect; Take a long-term view of marital stability and happiness; Cherish and respect each other and work together to create a happy family. At the same time, we must also recognize that every concession and tolerance in marriage is a contribution to the future of the family. Let us walk hand in hand on the road of marriage and pursue a happy life together.
Cherishing and respecting are the two indispensable pillars on the road to marriage. The cherishing of each other is not only the projection of emotions, but also the recognition of each other's unique value. Respect is respect for independent individuals, respect for each other's choices and decisions. These two are intertwined and form the cornerstone of married life.
Needless disputes will only consume each other's energy and destroy the originally harmonious relationship. And the harm will gradually expand the rift in the marriage, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Therefore, we need to learn to control our emotions, face problems rationally, and avoid meaningless quarrels and hurts.
Only when we truly value and respect each other and avoid unnecessary disputes and hurts can we go wider and wider on the road of marriage. Every understanding and tolerance, every communication and compromise will make our marriage road smoother and broader.
In the end, when we go further and further on the road of marriage, we will find that true happiness and satisfaction are actually hidden in the accumulation of bits and pieces. Every smile, every hug, is the best reward for cherishing and respecting marriage. Only in this way can we truly reap the happiness and fulfillment in marriage.