When faced with the confession of others, how to refuse is not an easy thing to do, especially the kind of person you don't hate and can't love. To avoid embarrassment and hurt the other person's feelings, you can decline in a way that is appropriate and respectful.
Be grateful for the other person's courage and honesty. Confession is an act of bravery, even if your answer is a refusal, to appreciate the other person's courage and sincerity. It can be said, "I appreciate how you feel about me, thank you for your willingness to share it with me." Such expressions will make the other person feel your respect and understanding.
Be honest about your feelings. You can say, "I cherish our friendship, but I don't think it has developed to the point of lovers between us." Or, "I have a crush on you, but I don't feel like we have enough in common to build a long-lasting relationship." Such expressions can give the other person an idea of where you stand and how you feel, rather than making them feel rejected for no reason.
Respect each other's feelings. Rejecting others can be disappointing and sad, so respond to their feelings with an attitude of understanding and compassion. You can say, "I know this may make you feel bad, but I think we should all be honest about each other's feelings." Or, "I hope we can continue to have a friendly relationship, even if I can't accept your confession." Such expressions can make the other person feel that you care and respect.
Avoid hurtful language and avoid using language that is too sharp or cold. Gentle, polite language will give you extra points. For example, you could say, "I appreciate your affection for me, but I feel like we're better suited to be friends." Or, "I'm sorry, I can't accept your confession, but I hope we can maintain a friendly relationship." Such expressions can reduce the other person's sense of harm.
Give the other person some time and space. After rejecting someone's confession, it may take some time for the other person to process their emotions. Respect their feelings and give them some time and space to calm down. You can say, "I know this may take some time to accept, and I hope you can understand my decision." ”
With proper handling, you can continue to maintain a friendly relationship with the other person and create a better future for yourself and the other person.