Yu Hua said: There are four ways to be a man, you can't say the wrong thing, you can't sleep in the wrong bed, you can't step on the wrong threshold, and you can't touch the wrong pocket.
Being a man, these four principles really are.
Easier said than done!
Just like we usually eat snacks, we always can't help but want to eat two more bites, and as a result, we get fat.
These four ways of being a person also make people tense their nerves all the time, and if they are not careful, they will make mistakes.
Let's start with the phrase "you can't say something wrong."
We have to talk every day, but sometimes it's really the mouth that is faster than the brain, and if you don't pay attention, you can say the wrong thing.
For example, if you make a joke with a colleague, you will be embarrassed by the fact that people take it seriously.
Sometimes, the heart is obviously well-intentioned, but it makes people sound harsh when they say it.
So, when it comes to talking, you have to think twice before acting, don't let your momentary rapidity become a stumbling block in life.
Let's talk about "you can't sleep in the wrong bed".
It may sound like a joke, but when you think about it, it's true.
Some people go to unreliable places for the sake of excitement or to save money, and as a result, they can't sleep well at night and have to worry about it during the day.
So, choosing a good place to sleep is not only for a good night's sleep, but also for your own safety.
Then there is "the threshold cannot be wrong".
This threshold is like the dividing line of life, once you step on the wrong step, the consequences are unimaginable.
Some people climb up desperately for fame and fortune, and end up falling to the ground.
Therefore, we must recognize our own abilities and positions, don't blindly follow the trend, and don't take risks for the sake of illusory things.
Finally, there is the phrase "you can't make a mistake in your pocket".
This pocket is full of our hard-earned money.
If you touch the wrong pocket, you really can't cry.
Some people are greedy for cheapness, or are confused by rhetoric, and end up investing their money in unreliable places, and finally end up with nothing.
So, we have to guard our money bags and don't let those with ulterior motives take advantage of it.
In general, these four principles of life seem simple, but in fact they are profound.
We have to remind ourselves all the time not to let ourselves get into trouble because of a moment of negligence.
To be a man, you still have to be down-to-earth and move forward step by step!