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Text: 360-degree psychology understands love and understands you better.
Happy New Year, Teacher:
I've been feeling a little anxious lately, and I'm bothering you again!
And outside of marriage for more than two years, the relationship has been very good, he dotes on me very much, sometimes he ignores him for a few days, and he is also sincerely afraid to show goodwill, so I don't know what psychology I am, how I like others to kneel and lick to please, so that I feel that I am loved and valued.
On Valentine's Day, the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, he had no news for a day, and there would be red envelopes in previous years, so I was a little angry, and I didn't bother to pay attention to him when he sent a message on the sixth day of the new year, and then he asked me if I was at work, and I answered and said two words.
He said that he spent the whole Spring Festival anxiously, I was instantly upset when I saw this sentence, I guess his anxiety is nothing more than the upcoming exam, or the company's payment at the end of the year is not good, financial pressure, in fact, I resigned at the end of the year and recently I have been a little anxious, I just think I am also in a low energy state, but I don't want to be mixed by your negative energy, so I didn't reply.
I didn't pay much attention to him in the next few days, he wished me a happy holiday during the Lantern Festival, I thought about it or replied affectionately, and he immediately responded to me very affectionately. Yesterday he sent me a message saying that he was going to the hospital today, I called ** to care about it, chatted for half an hour, he wanted to see a Chinese medicine doctor because of long-term poor sleep, and said that the anxiety was mainly because of too much financial pressure, and the payment was very poor at the end of last year, and the company felt that it could not continue to operate, and said that there was no living expenses.
I don't know if his living expenses refer to the company's living expenses or the living expenses of the family, I comforted him, and he was also very happy and said that as long as I still have him in my heart, he was very happy, and the conversation was still very sweet. But today I am still very depressed and angry, he has not asked me to meet until now, we have not seen each other for more than 20 days this time, he is eager to meet immediately after the New Year, usually see once every 7 10 days, and tell me to go home and read before work!
Go home and decoction! It made me even more angry, and I didn't bother to pay attention to him. What I'm angry about now is that he didn't ask me out because he didn't have any money? But as for the meeting, don't you have any money? Or do you not have the urge to see me? Thinking of me, I feel a little frustrated, I can't figure out what my mentality is, is it that I haven't been idle at work recently, I didn't think about his thoughts before, I hope the teacher will pick it up.
My reply: I'm still too idle, and when I meet the New Year on Valentine's Day, many men probably don't think it's convenient to give you gifts at this time, so you're disappointed, and it's normal. If you always have to apologize to the man to feel that the relationship can be maintained, the man probably feels tired too, so be it.
Sometimes the woman in the relationship, if she always needs the other party to kneel and lick, the man who kneels and licks will find it boring one day. It's boring, the man doesn't want to contact you, and the woman herself is here to have internal friction, which is uncomfortable. Can it be simpler, it is originally a relationship between the sexes that attract each other. If the man comes, he will do it, and if he doesn't come, forget it, and if it doesn't work, he will change it.
Do you still want to talk about a lifelong love? Maybe for women, the emotions themselves in the love process are the favorite, and they probably can understand why women can't do their careers, because most women are trying to consume energy for these trivial things, and men have long worked hard.
Women always like to be a weak person in a relationship, but a strong person can live a better life in a relationship. Strong thinking is cooperative thinking and resource thinking, not a man's little thing to make himself miserable.
About author:360-degree view of psychology, psychological supervisor, counselor, psychology lecturer, gender relationship research scholar, emotional writer, deeply engaged in the field of psychology for more than 20 years, focusing on the improvement of women's wisdom, gender cognitive cultivation and intimate relationship building, to improve the modern man and woman's sense of belief and cooperation in love and marriage for the concept, based on improving the quality of marriage between Chinese men and women, is committed to making China's marriage and family relationship more stable, so that the modern society can be more healthy and long-term development.