The two families were close, and after retirement, the man in one family fell ill, and the woman in the other family also got sick
In the community where I used to live, there were two men who were good friends. Because of the good relationship, they chose to buy a house together. Initially, the two men were good friends, and then the women of the two families also became good friends.
When I first heard their stories, I often saw an old man and an old lady walking together, and I always thought they were husband and wife. I was later told that they were not husband and wife. Because they have a good relationship between the two families, now, if the man of one family is sick and the woman of the other family is also sick, the remaining two people will often walk together.
After learning about this situation, every time I saw them walking together, I realized that they were not a family.
It is said that the woman who walks with Lao Luo every day is surnamed Zhao, and everyone calls her Aunt Zhao. Aunt Zhao's husband's surname is Wang, and everyone calls him Lao Wang, but he is already half paralyzed.
Lao Luo's wife suffers from Alzheimer's disease, and the condition progresses rapidly. Lao Luo couldn't take care of her, so he had to send her to a nursing home.
It is rumored that Lao Luo and Lao Wang were originally iron buddies and comrades-in-arms who depended on each other. After leaving the army, they each made a living in the local area, and although they were not in the same unit, they had a deep relationship and trusted each other. Therefore, they choose to buy a property in the same neighborhood to make it easier for them to take care of each other.
As the years passed, Lao Luo's wife was the first to suffer from Alzheimer's. After she fell ill, Lao Wang and Aunt Zhao worked together to help Lao Luo take care of her.
Lao Luo was often unable to take time off to take care of his wife, while Lao Wang and Aunt Zhao did the shopping and cooking for him. As Lao Luo turned seventy years old and his energy gradually declined, he gradually felt powerless. The wife often makes a mess of the home, and he can't take care of it alone. So, he decided to send his wife to a nursing home and only need to visit him once a week.
Unexpectedly, not long after Lao Luo sent his wife to the nursing home, Lao Wang suddenly suffered from cerebral thrombosis. Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao worked together to send Lao Wang to the hospital for emergency**. After Lao Wang** returned home, although his life was saved, he was unable to move and could only rely on a wheelchair to travel, and occasionally Aunt Zhao would accompany him out. However, most of the time, Lao Wang could only stay at home.
At the beginning, Lao Wang's condition was still mild, and he was able to go out in a wheelchair, and he looked pretty good.
As his condition worsened, Wang could hardly travel in a wheelchair anymore and could only lie at home every day. In this case, Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao had to leave him at home and could no longer go out for a walk.
When the two went out shopping, Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao went together. Since he was the only one left in Lao Luo's family, and Aunt Zhao's family had a sick person, the relationship between them became blurred, and Lao Luo often ate at Lao Wang's house. He takes care of Lao Wang, while Aunt Zhao cooks for them.
Unexpectedly, not long after Lao Luo sent his wife to a nursing home, Lao Wang suddenly suffered from cerebral thrombosis. After Lao Wang fell ill, Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao worked together to send him to the hospital for rescue. Although Lao Wang saved his life after being hospitalized**, he had difficulty moving and could only rely on a wheelchair to move, and sometimes Aunt Zhao would push him out for a walk, but most of the time he could only stay at home.
At first, Lao Wang's condition was not serious, and he was still in a wheelchair and pushed by Aunt Zhao and Lao Luo to go out for a walk, and he seemed to be in good condition.
However, as his condition deteriorated, Wang was barely able to confine himself to a wheelchair and had to lie at home all day. In this case, Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao can no longer take him out.
When shopping, Lao Luo and Aunt Zhao will go together. Since Lao Luo's family was the only one left, and Aunt Zhao had a sick person to take care of, the line between them seemed to have blurred, and Lao Luo often ate at Lao Wang's house. Lao Luo helped Aunt Zhao take care of Lao Wang, while Aunt Zhao cooked for the two of them.
The two elderly people are in their 70s and have limited mobility, especially when shopping, they often rely on Lao Luo to ride a tricycle, and Aunt Zhao sits on the car.
It is said that Lao Luo gave Aunt Zhao 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, but she only accepted 1,000 yuan.
So get along for years. As Wang's condition deteriorated, Aunt Zhao could no longer take care of him, so she had to send him to a nursing home.
After Lao Wang left, Lao Luo lived with Aunt Zhao. Because the two have been together for a long time, people in the community have long been talking about their relationship, but no one can say exactly what the relationship is.
The two elderly people are in their 70s and have limited mobility, especially when shopping, they often rely on Lao Luo to ride a tricycle, and Aunt Zhao sits on the car.
It is said that Lao Luo gave Aunt Zhao 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, but she only accepted 1,000 yuan.
So get along for years. As Wang's condition deteriorated, Aunt Zhao could no longer take care of him, so she had to send him to a nursing home.
After Lao Wang left, Lao Luo lived with Aunt Zhao. Because the two have been together for a long time, people in the community have long been talking about their relationship, but no one can say exactly what the relationship is.
Lao Luo's daughter doesn't eat at home often anymore because she is used to eating out, especially after her mother fell ill and her father stopped cooking.
Now Lao Luo's wife is deceased, and the children have helped him deal with the aftermath together. Only Lao Wang was left in the nursing home, and every Sunday, Lao Luo would go to visit Lao Wang with Aunt Zhao.
Lao Wang used to greet them excitedly, but in recent years he has no expression, and I heard that his intelligence has been lost. If you can get friends who really help each other and take care of each other for a lifetime, it is a kind of happiness, but there are very few such friends.