In the whirlpool of love, we are often swallowed up by strong emotions and dream of "flying with wings" with our beloved, but fate always seems to love jokes, so that the person who loves each other eventually becomes a passer-by with no fate. In the face of lovers who cannot become husband and wife, people's reactions are different, and some people are entangled for life, delaying their own happiness; Others forced themselves to put it down, but burst into tears as they turned around. To deal with this emotion gracefully, consider drawing on the following ancient poems, which will help us to look at reality wisely.
I am not famous, I am not married, and I may be inferior to others", reflecting the cruel poverty of reality may hinder the development of fate. Although Luo Yin, a genius in the Tang Dynasty, was talented, he tried and failed repeatedly, and although he had a deep relationship with the famous courtesan Yunying, he could not be combined due to poverty. Love does not exist in isolation from material things, it requires money, shelter and a stable foundation for life. When both people are in a difficult situation, it is difficult to resist the test of reality, even with love in their hearts.
The face of the person does not know where to go, and the peach blossom is still smiling in the spring breeze" reminds us to take the initiative to grasp fate. Cui Hu's experience tells us that if the opportunity is lost, it may never be recovered. Love needs to be expressed and cherished in time, because time wears off, and waiting can lead to eternal regrets.
First, "I'd rather die with incense on the branches, how could I have blown down in the north wind" depicts the persistence and pain of love. Zheng Sixiao, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, used the persistence of chrysanthemums as a metaphor for those who refuse to let go of love, but too deep emotions are often accompanied by deeper wounds. Zhang Run'e's infatuation with Gu Weijun only ended up being a monk. Attachment in love needs to be moderate, otherwise the damage will only deepen.
First, "I'm only afraid of falling asleep in the middle of the night, so I burn high candles to shine red makeup" shows Su Shi's beautiful retention of the past. Although his love for Chaoyun is deep, the ruthlessness of fate makes him understand that there are some things that cannot be forced. To love the individual is also to accept the inevitable separation and decay of life.
Finally, "Don't worry about the road ahead without knowing yourself, no one in the world knows you" encourages us to continue to move forward after letting go. Gao Shi's words remind us that there are always new beginnings in life. When we bravely say goodbye to the past, a new life journey and possible new love await us.
In this vast world, each of us is like a speck of dust, occasionally meeting and drifting apart. The beauty of love lies in its transience and preciousness, and even if it is ultimately separated, it is a part of life. Through these verses, we can learn how to gracefully deal with the emotions of being unconnected, and transform the love of the past into a faint memory. Pay attention to the words and go deep into the heart, so that we can find our own direction in the ups and downs of fate.
Please note that this is a rewrite, following the theme and structure of the original text, with minor touches to ensure that the main idea remains the same. ]
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