(This article was written a year and a half ago, I originally posted it in the WeChat circle of friends, and when I looked at the circle of friends today, I didn't think of the scene at that time, so I sent it to Baijia, I hope you like it.) )
In 2006, I built a new bungalow, and after the new house was built, I wanted to buy new furniture, and after discussing with my wife, I bought this set of real cowhide sofas and coffee tables in the furniture city on the fourth floor of the Century Building. I also bought a ** table and chairs. At the time, I thought it was just a little thing in life. I didn't discuss it with my father, but after the sofa was shipped home, I said to my father, you have suffered with me all your life and never enjoyed happiness. We bought a new sofa so that you won't be so tired watching TV in the future. Dad smiled and asked me how much? My wife and I lied to him and told him that it was more than 4,000, and the next day at dinner, my father asked me again, today, I went to the street to find a sofa that was exactly the same as our sofa, and people asked for more than 10,000 yuan, how can you buy it for 4,000 yuan? My wife and I told him in unison that if he wanted something, we would pay the price. Dad smiled and said nothing.
In 2009, I bought a new building and sold it due to cash constraints. This set of sofas and dining table and chairs, because it was bought according to the size of the bungalow. The sofa and dining table and chairs are too big in the building. In line with the principle of economy, this can also be used. So they were transported upstairs.
In 2018, my brother and sister-in-law eliminated his sofa. My brother sent a WeChat message asking me if I wanted his old sofa. I know that he only bought these pieces of furniture in the last few years. It fits perfectly in our home. I didn't hesitate to say yes. So my wife and I went to my brother's house and pulled his couch back. The sofa we bought was in the bedroom. Due to age and improper maintenance, the cowhide of the seat cushion part of the sofa has cracked. Both sofas are large in the living room and take up quite a bit of space in the small bedroom, making it difficult to walk.
So I discussed with my wife that I should send my brother's sand to someone. My wife said that these two small sofas are very suitable for our living room, so it is better to send our two Pisa to someone. So we contacted the people who wanted the sofas and pulled the two leather sofas away this afternoon. At that time, my father went out to play cards and was not at home. We think the sofa is usually in the bedroom. He wouldn't have come into our bedroom, he wouldn't have known. After dinner, my father asked my wife in the living room, how much did you sell those two old sofas? My wife said that the sofas are all old and sold for money, who wants to give them away, and there is really no place to put them ......Unexpectedly, the 90-year-old father was very annoyed when he heard this, but he couldn't lose his temper with his daughter-in-law, so he asked me out. Unexpectedly, my father said that I am over 90 years old this year, and I can't live for many years, and my biggest wish is to live for another nine years. ......Seeing that my dad was angry, my wife and I hurriedly explained to my dad and quickly admitted our mistakes. Say don't you off for these things. I was wrong......After communicating with my father for an hour, my father solemnly arranged his funeral for me, and my wife and I both realized our mistakes.
My mistake today is that I thought I was hiding my ears and stealing the bell for everything. Thinking that Daddy couldn't find out at all. In fact, if people don't know, they can't do it unless they do. Daddy is silent on the surface, but he is like a mirror in his heart. He is not stingy; It's a lifetime of frugality. He is not like some people, who are eloquent and have real feelings for us. But we still don't appreciate him and make him angry. People's hearts can only be understood in long-term relationships, and feelings can only be seen clearly in the choice of encounters. In the world, understand me, cherish me, and are willing to accompany.
The only person who accompanies me and is willing to endure hardships for me is my father. He is our blessed star and patron saint!
In the future, I want to communicate with my father a lot, chat a lot, people often say old children, old children, but that's really the case! Different ages, different trade-offs, different years, different lives, live yourself at each age, and you can have no regrets in life!